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在 2013年10月24日 你妻子把你介绍给她朋友，那是她想在朋友面前炫耀她找了一个挪威外国男人，在你妻子朋友眼里挪威男人很有钱，意思就是她很有能力，她很快去挪威就要发财了，让她的朋友羡慕嫉妒恨，我分析她的朋友一个都不是真心对她好的，你不明白吗？你认为你妻子每天有4桌朋友在一起吃吃饭，玩玩牌，就是她知心朋友吗？我告诉你，那是她他们虚伪的表现，是假像，你妻子是在做给你看，让你这个不明里的老外挪威看看她有好多朋友，她好有本事，我告诉你，你妻子让你看到的都是表面的东西，你明白吗，是假像，她让你相信她是真想与你结婚的，于是你相信她了，到现在你也相信她是真想与你结婚。 你妻子不是什么好东西，你应该明白你妻子与你结婚的真正目的，我不喜欢你妻子这样的女人，只会想去骗一一个挪威外国男人的钱，其实她骗你的钱去给她弟弟还债务，她虚荣心太强，想钱多要靠自己劳动，她说假话，不诚实有什么好，你是活该！
23/10/2013 理查德·诺顿的答复 我能接受她跟我结婚的初衷是在西方有更好的生活，工作，挣更多的钱。但我不相信这段婚姻是虚幻的，我被介绍给她的母亲，儿子，兄弟和姐妹。我 和她以及她的家庭住在一起8个月，住在她的宽敞的大公寓里面，是在一个花园社区里。那段时间我还被介绍给她的朋友，同事和亲戚。我参与他们的 活动（清明的扫墓），有50-60个亲戚参与的，大型的晚宴-共4桌，每桌10-12个人。我到过她的许多朋友，同事和亲戚的家里。每周 2-3次和她的8-10个熟人一起吃晚饭。多次参加过她银行组织的的社交活动，都是一整天在外面的，参与的人从10个到50个都有（玩牌，打 麻将，打太极，唱K，坐车到附近的小镇去玩等等）都是她在银行的同事。这8个月中我见到她社交圈子中的数百个人，如果她的目的只是为了一张在 西方的长期饭票和绿卡，她会这样做吗？在中国的社会，这样会被认可吗？我不相信在最初的时候她只是想跟我假结婚。
20.10.2013 理查德诺顿先生你好，这信息不是一个中国20岁高中说出的话来，这个静萍年轻的小辈同样是在袒护她静萍，在中国她没有在静萍家说话的权利，我指的权利是，她是小辈，长辈都不会采纳小辈的意见，她写给你的信息是找长辈给她代写的，她写的信息都是在放屁，在中国静萍就是想你是她弟弟的提款机，静萍就是不想好好与你过日子，但是，静萍不应该向挪威警方撒谎，诽谤和陷害你，静萍太不厚道了，关键的问题是你没有给静萍和她弟弟很多的钱，她静萍心里不平衡，我说句公道话，静萍心太不好，没有良心发现，人品有很大的问题，只有怪你瞎了眼睛，没看清楚静萍和她弟弟的真实面目！你以后找女人一定要小小心翼翼，其实中国大多数女人心都很善良，只是你运气不好，遇到静萍和她弟弟这样两个太爱钱财人！远离她们吧！
静萍的弟弟以为你这姐夫是他的提款机，
1 你上当受骗了，其实你妻子的弟弟，妹妹找很多借口说你不好，你自己难道还没看出你妻子弟弟，妹妹一家人的阴谋诡计吗？你妻子都可以偷野男人，你为什么不可 以找宁去泰国呢？我认为你宁可找宁做妻子，也不要找你妻子的妹妹结婚，你没与妹妹结婚是对的，否则，你更烦恼！请你不要与你妻子一家人纠缠不清！！ ---原始邮件--- 2 理查德诺顿你好，你妻子的弟弟，妹妹一家人都想骗你钱用，你怎么就不明白呢？她们看你在挪威不是很有钱，但是还可以利用你去挪威定居发财，所以，骗你，利 用你，想你改变你的态度，让她们去挪威定居，你妻子的妹妹是黄鼠狼给鸡拜年没安好心，你不要相信他们一家人的话，他们是害人精。远离他们吧 ---原始邮件--- 3 你妻子的妹妹也想你的钱，只不过她表达方式不同，妹妹也想到挪威定居，你难道没看明白吗？你真单纯，你妻子一家人心眼多，你斗不过他们，我劝你远离他们！ ---原始邮件--- 4 静萍的弟弟就是认为你没有给他上千万的钱用，所以对你有很大的意见，她弟弟是教唆犯，他叫静萍诽谤，陷害你，说假话，他弟弟当你面是人，被着你是鬼，远离他一家人 ---原始邮件---
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October 24, 2013 05:13:07 Your wife to introduce you to her friends, it was she wanted to show off in front of friends she found a Norwegian foreign men, in the eyes of your wife Norwegian friends very rich man, meaning that she was very capable, she quickly went to Norway on to make a fortune, so her friends envy jealous hate, my analysis is not her friend a really good for her, do not you understand me? Do you think your wife have four tables every day to eat dinner with friends, play cards, is her intimate friends? I tell you, it was her performance of their hypocrisy, is a fake, like, your wife is doing to you, let you in this unknown foreigner Norway to see if she has a lot of friends, and she is good to have a skill, I tell you, you wife let you see all the surface of things, you know, is false, like, she makes you believe she really wanted to marry you, so you believe her, and now you really want to believe that she is with you married.
Your wife is not a good thing, you should understand that your
wife and your real purpose of marriage , I do not like your wife
this woman , only wants to deceive eleven Norwegian foreign men
for money , in fact, she lied to give your money
her
brother debts , her vanity too , would like to work on your own
money , she said lies, dishonesty what is good, you deserve it !
23/10/2013 Richard Norton's reply: I accept the fact that much of her
motive to marry me was a desire to have a better life in the west, work
and earn money. However I do not believe that the marriage was entirely
fake. I was introduced to her mother, son, brother and sister. I moved
in with her family and have spent a total of about 8 months living with
her family in her large apartment in a guarded neighbourhood. During
that time I have been introduced to her friends, colleagues and
relatives. I have been to arrangements with her relatives (Qingming
Festival/ Tomb Sweeping Day) involving 50-60 of her relatives, a big
dinner - 4 tables seating 10-12 persons each. I have been home to many
of her friends, colleagues and relatives. 2 or 3 times a week we are
dining with 8 to 10 of her acquaintances. I have been to several all-day
long outings involving from 10 to over 50 persons (play cards, Mahjong,
T'ai chi, karaoke, bus to nearby villages etc.) with her colleagues from
the bank where she worked. During these 8 months I have met several
hundred people in her social network. Would she do this if her motive
was just to get a meal ticket and green card to the west? Would that be
socially acceptable in China? I do not believe the marriage was a fake
in the beginning. 20.10.2013
Hello,
Mr. Richard Norton,
this information is not
a Chinese
20-year-old high school
to say the words to
this Jingping
young junior
Jingping also in
partial to her,
she was not in
China the right to speak
in Jingping
home, I mean right,
she was a junior, junior
elders will not
adopt the opinions,
she wrote the information
you are looking for
elders to write
to her, and she wrote the
information is in the
fart in
China Jingping
is think of you is her
brother the
ATM, Jingping
just do not want to live
well with you,
however, to the Norwegian
police Jingping
should not lie,
slander and harm you,
Jingping too kind, the
key problem is that you did
not give her brother
a lot Jingping
the money, she
Jingping unbalanced mind,
I be fair,
Jingping heart is too
good, no conscience,
character have a big problem,
only blame you blind,
did not see Chujing Ping and
her brother true face!
After you
find a woman must be small,
carefully, in fact, the
majority of Chinese women
are very kind heart,
but you are unlucky encounter
Jingping and
her brother money
so two
people so in love!
They stay away from
it!
Jingping brother
thought you were this
brother is his
ATM,
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2013年10月15日，我的答覆 爱是一种很难衡量的东西，但我的确相信我妻子的妹妹比我妻子更爱我！当我妻子不在场的时候我和她妹妹经常手牵手，以及其他肢体接触。在公车和出租车上手牵手的感觉很好！我给她买东西。比如说我需要买一个剃须刀，于是我们坐出租车去了购物中心。在那里我还买了一个价值人民币五百元的剃须刀给她，我经常幻想用那个剃须刀帮她剃腿毛！我们之间还有一个从未透露的秘密。我很后悔没有和她结婚。她的道德标准没有静萍那么低，而且我相信她的兄弟没那么容易能说服她来诬告我。我其实更愿意和她去泰国游玩。她曾经告诉我其实她的兄弟在孩童时期就有很严重的问题。我其实本来很喜欢他的兄弟的。我不会说中文，他不会说英文，但是他总是对我很好而且很周到。但是现在他对我很生气。他是那种无证驾驶，出了车祸又置伤者于不顾而逃离现场的人，明知自己无法偿还却又问人家借了一大笔钱，等等。是这个弟弟坚持要我的妻子通过诬告我来取得在挪威继续居留的签证，从而可以挣钱帮他还债。我觉得他是个危险人物。这就是为什么我要去泰国而不去中国大陆的原因。（另外的原因是去中国大陆需要签证费2000， 邀请信，照片，递交申请前必须定好机票并完成所有的文件准备，而我去泰国，香港，台湾，马来西亚，新加坡等地甚至都不需要签证！） |
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On 13/10/2013 11:54, 春江梦雨花月夜 wrote: > 你妻子的弟弟是国际人犯子，是人渣，是社会垃圾，统称骗子。你不要相信你妻子妹妹喜欢你，你不要去喜欢你妻子妹妹， 她们是一家人，你懂吗？你真傻，一家人不会帮你说话，你妻子妹妹就是一个间谍，你明白吗？你妻子的弟弟就想把两个妹妹嫁给外国男人，弟弟认为 外国有钱，可以让他的妹妹有很多的钱给他用，真是丢尽了他的脸 |
On 13/10/2013 11:54,
spring Jiangmeng Yu Hua Yue wrote: > Your wife 's brother is an international child prisoners are scum, is a social waste, collectively liar. You do not believe your wife sister like you, you do not go like your wife sister, who is a man , you understand me ? You silly, a person will not help you speak, your wife is a sister spy , you know ? Your wife 's brother just want to marry foreign men two sisters , my brother think foreign money , you can let his sister have a lot of money to give him , a disgrace to his face |
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你写了下面的我的QQ专区公众意见。
宁告诉我姐姐：宁和你到曼谷约会。在2011年，宁住在你家，趁我姐姐不在家，你已经勾引宁，在2012年12月，你又诬陷我姐姐，说：我姐姐需要宁帮助在丹麦找男人，真可笑，这个时间，宁早已被丹麦警方遣送回国，这是你和宁狼狈为奸诬陷我姐姐，现在你们俩人又去曼谷约会，事实证明理查德，你是有婚外情。违背婚姻。你诬陷我姐姐，你是恶人。
我的回复: 宁在2011年十月份的时候到挪威拜访我妻子大约两周多一点。你是否在控诉我 趁我妻子不在的时候对她不忠并勾引宁？这是一个完全不真实而且是恶意的控诉。 在一个私下里的聊天过程中你建议我和你姐姐商量着尝试去解决问题。你希望我能帮你姐姐继续留在挪威，你希望我能帮她找工作，找朋友。 在桂林的时候我和我的妻子一起在她的公寓里住了8个月。大多数时间我都呆在卧室里因为我的电脑在卧室里。除了我妻子之外，我接触最多的人就是你了！我真的喜欢你而且我确定你也喜欢我。很多次你和我单独坐在卧室里，你坐在我旁边用你姐姐的电脑，甚至是你姐姐并不在家的时候。有时候你还躺在她床上休息。有很多次我们两个单独坐公车或者出租车去购物或者在城市观光，当你姐姐在工作的时候。我们甚至手拉手。我们手拉手坐在出租车里! 你是一个非常有活力的女性，我和你姐姐之间的性生活并不是很美满。 她可以在性生活的时候接听电话。我必须承认我花了很大力气控制自己，不去碰触你！其实对于你对我产生的影响，我曾经花了很大力气去挣扎和克制。我也必须承认我经常幻想过我和你结了婚而不是你姐姐。你比你姐姐更有活力而且你的道德准则比她高的多。我不相信你居然也会明知真相而对我做出虚假的指控。我知道你实际上并不赞同你的兄弟的所作所为。 让我们来看一下一个假设性的而且完全不真实的指控。比如说，你和我在2011年欺骗了你姐姐而且我们在她去工作的时候有了性关系。毕竟，如果在2011年我可以毫无顾忌地欺骗你姐姐，和宁在一起，那我当然也可以毫无顾忌地和你在一起！我和宁单独在一起的时间只有每周三次，每次2个小时，当你姐姐去上挪威语课程的时候。相比之下，我有更多的时间、机会和动机去勾引你或被你勾引。假设我说我们坐出租车去你的公寓上床而不是 一起去购物或观光。我也可以假设说我付钱给你，为了和你上床，和你一起洗澡，等等。如果我指控你和我做出了这些事情，你会有什么感觉？你喜欢这些指控吗？如果我对你做出这种诬告，你会愿意原谅我，继续和我做朋友吗？你会愿意帮我继续留在中国吗？你会帮我找工作吗？你能理解我的感受吗？ 此外，你是否明白，与其说我和宁一起欺骗你姐姐，在2011年我和宁就有关系，还不如说我和你有性关系更为合理一些，想一想吧！（因为你是我妻子的妹妹，我对你也有感情，而且我在桂林待了8个月，我有更多和你单独在一起的时间，如果你认为我可以在那么短时间里去勾引一个拜访我妻子的女人，我当然可以在8个 月里去勾引我妻子的妹妹。我在桂林的时候我们曾经单独呆在卧室里，在桂林市里逛，曾经手拉手，而且那个时候我喜欢你超过喜欢宁，你觉得我那个时候有勾引你吗？） 现在你姐姐诬告我虐待她，希望能因此获得继续留在挪威的签证。根据挪威移民法53条，有三种虐待情况是可以获得签证的： 1.身体上的虐待，暴力或限制：例如殴打，脚踢，用刀子割，用比如香烟烫伤，使用器具殴打，试图溺毙，绞杀。限制可以是锁住门，用手铐，用绳子捆绑。 2.心理虐待通常是指威胁会使用身体上的暴力，例如“如果你离开这座房子，我会打你，用刀割你，杀死你等”，“如果你不这样做，我就自杀”。 3.性虐待是指强奸。也可以扩大意义，指一个人违背他人的 意愿，与之发生性关系。 根据我所了解的，你姐姐提出的诬告内容包含了性虐待！2012年八月和九月我发现你姐姐对我撒谎，欺骗我。谎言和欺骗证明了一个严重的事实，而且我掌握的证据远远超过了了我原先对此事的怀疑。在九月1日，也许是2日，你姐姐私下和一个男人会面，并试图用谎言和欺骗来对我隐瞒，这件事我在网站ridanos.com上用英语详细描述了细节：“我的妻子是否打算拿到长居后离开我？” 九月初我咨询了律师，他建议我马上和我妻子离婚。我没有听从他的建议。我想要给你姐姐一个机会。我们去了家庭问题咨询办公室6次，但你姐姐拒绝合作。一个中国朋友在这为期4个月的过程中成功地帮了一点小忙来修复我们的关系。 在2013年四月初，我并没有打算要和你姐姐离婚。我只是希望她回到中国，把她的财务问题解决掉。我超过一半的税后收入都汇到了中国。这个数目大概是桂林平均收入的5-6倍。大部分用于为你兄弟的愚蠢行径造成的后果买单。我可没和我的妻子的兄弟结婚。我并且愿意继续给你的姐姐每个月4000元，如果你姐姐想维持我们的婚姻，我们可以很容易地继续申请一个新的签证，然后让她回到挪威。如果你姐姐希望离婚，我们也可以继续做朋友。我可以帮助她重新在挪威找一个男人。很不幸的是，你兄弟，和另外1或者2个在挪威的中国人建议你姐姐抓住这个机会，去诬告我家暴她，从而获得签证。 我只是非常生气，换了是你，你也会生气如果我诬告你说你和我在2011年有性关系。
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My wife’s sister posted the following on my QQ zone 7th of October 2013.
You wrote the following public comment on my QQ zone. Ning told my sister : Ning and you went to Bangkok dating. In 2011 , Ning stayed at your house , while my sister was not at home , you have seduced Ning. In December 2012 , you have framed my sister and said: My sister needs Ning to help her to find a man in Denmark , really ridiculous, at this time Ning has been already repatriated by Danish police , this is you and Ning framed my sister .And now you two went to Bangkok dating . The truth proved that you, Richard , are having an affair . You betray marriage. You framed my sister , you are bad people.
Richard Norton's reply: Ning visited my wife and I here in Norway for a little over 2 weeks in October 2011. Are you accusing me of cheating on my wife by seducing Ning in 2011 and having an affair with her when my wife was not home? This is a totally untrue and malevolent accusation. In a private chat you suggest that I consult with your sister to try to resolve the problem. You want me to help your sister remain in Norway. You want me to help her find a job and try to be friends with her. I lived a total of about 8 months in your wife’s apartment in Guilin. Mostly I lived in her bedroom where my computer was. The person I had most contact with, aside from my wife, was you! I really like you and I am pretty sure you liked me. You were many times alone with me in your sisters’ bedroom sitting beside me using her computer even when your sister was not home. Sometimes you lay down on her bed to rest. You and I took a taxi or bus many times to go shopping and sightseeing alone while my wife was at work. We even held hands in the taxi. You are an extremely attractive woman. The sexual relationship between me and your sister was not very satisfactory. She could for example answer the mobile telephone when we were having sex. I must confess it took an enormous amount of self-control for me to keep my hands off you! I actually struggled quite a bit with suppressing my attraction to you. I will also confess that I often wished that I had married you instead! You are much more attractive to me and your ethical standards are much higher than your sisters. I do not believe you would ever knowingly make false accusations. I know that you don’t really approve of what your brother is doing. Let us examine a hypothetical and totally untrue accusation. Let us say, for example, you and I cheated on your sister in 2011 and had a sexual relationship while my wife was at work. After all, if I have no scruples about cheating with Ning in 2011 I certainly wouldn’t have any scruples about having sex with you! I was only alone in the house with Ning for about 2 hours a day 3 times a week when you sister went to Norwegian class. I had many times more opportunity and motive to seduce you or be seduced by you. Let us say that instead of taking a taxi to the shopping center or the park we took a taxi to your apartment and went to bed. Let us say that I paid you money for sex. We took showers together. Etc. How would you feel if I accused you of that? Would you like that? If I made such totally false accusations about you, would you be willing to forgive me and be friends with me? Would you like to help me remain in China? Would you help me find a job in China? Can you understand how I feel? By the way! Do you understand how the false claim that I cheated with Ning in 2011 actually makes the claim that you and I had a sexual relationship in 2011 much more plausible? Think about it! Lol. Now your sister is falsely accusing me of abuse in attempt to qualify for a visa in accordance with section 53 in the Norwegian Immigration Act,. There are 3 kinds of abuse that can qualify for a visa.
1. 1. Physical abuse. Is violence and or restraint: for example, beating, kicking, slapping, cutting with a knife, burning with for example cigarettes, hitting with objects, drowning attempts, strangulation. Restraint can be locked doors, handcuffs, binding with rope.
2. 2. Psychological abuse is usually threats of physical violence. For example “if you leave the house I will beat you up, cut you with a knife, kill you etc.”, “if you don’t do what I say I will kill myself”.
3. 3. Sexual abuse is rape. It can also be exploiting a person to have sex with somebody else against their will.
According to my sources your sister’s accusation includes sexual abuse! In August and September 2012 I discovered your sister was lying and deceiving me. The lies and deception are regarding serious matters and proven beyond the shadow of a doubt. In September on 1, possibly 2 occasions, she had a meeting with a man which your sister tried to keep secret from me through lies and deception. This is described in great detail in English at ridanos.com: ”Is my wife planning to leave me when she gets a permanent residence permit?”. I consulted a lawyer in the beginning of September and he advised me to immediately divorce her. I did not follow his advice. I tried to give your sister a chance. I went 6 times the family counselling office but your sister refused to cooperate. A Chinese friend tried with little success to help our relationship during the course of 4 months. In the beginning of April 2013 I did not intend to divorce your sister. I only wanted your sister to return to China and fix her financial affairs. More than half my income after taxes was being sent to China. This is equal to about 5 or 6 times the average annual income in Guilin. Most of this was to pay for your brother’s foolishness. I did not marry her brother. I would have continued paying your sister 4000 a month. If your sister wanted to remain married to me we could easily get a new visa and she can return to Norway and continue the marriage. If your sister wanted to divorce she could do that and we could have remained as friends. I could help her to find a new man in Norway. Unfortunately your brother and one or 2 other persons here Norway convinced your sister to take the risk of applying for a visa by making false complaints that I had abused her. I am just as furious about this as you would be if I had falsely accused you of having a sexual affair with me in 2011!
Regards Richard Norton
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