2013年10月6兄弟信

不懂法律我可以教你！

首先你发(xx)和别人的聊天记录恰恰证明你侵犯了隐私权，也足够表明你对(xx)实施了监控行为。我不认为这在挪威是被允许的。我和别人的债务问题很简单，当事人最能说明一切问题。你恶意曲解这些过程在事件定性上是站不住脚的。你说你每个月给(my sister)多少钱？4800？说你可笑你还不承认。你问问在中国的朋友(my sister)在国内实际收入多少？她放弃了在中国优厚的收入跟随你去了挪威。你居然还好意思说每个月给她多少钱好象还是恩赐对吧，看来你并没有好好看看我以前给你的回信，总觉得我们需要你的帮助，那你简直太滑稽了，中国有句成语叫井底之蛙明白是什么意思吗？等你能明白的时候你就不会再对(my sister)房产的问题有疑惑了。她在中国完全有能力解决自己的债务问题，但是为了跟随你去挪威可以更好的照顾你生活在一起。她放弃了自己应有的收入。理查你要知道，任何有良知的男人都明白该怎样去对待这样一个女人，而你却在这里好意思说你给了(my sister)多少钱。你口口声声说我有赌债，尊敬的理查先生。你这样信口开河你不觉得自己很幼稚吗？你说的所谓的车祸我又如何逃避责任，请问你有什么事实依据？又单凭你猥琐盗取的聊天记录吗？你认为这些文字在法律上有意义吗？而你在互联网上散布的文字恰恰可以足够证明你的愚蠢和无知。其实你小气不小气的跟我们没关系。要知道中国还有句俗话：人在做天在看！(my sister)至从在挪威被检查有糖尿病，你就想着法找出这么多理由让她回国。这不能不让人怀疑你的动机。你居然还好意思在网上说她有自己的钱可以自己支付费用，说实话，这也许是西方人的习惯方式。但在中国这实在算不上是个男人做的事情.最后我也真的不想去说你什么，因为对你这样一个人实在是无话可说。我会把我们以前的通信全部传给挪威警方，还有你在网上散布的这些恶意中伤名誉的事实。我们是不怕面对事实的，因为事实是虚假不了的。包括你在网上提出我所谓的债主，她也会同时发涵说明情况。最后注明不希望再有通信，一切让能解决问题的地方来证明吧

I don’t think you need to waste time to translate his letter to English. I think the Google translation is understandable enough. It’s mostly money money money. I am quite surprised he is now saying I want to send her back in China because she has diabetes!

Brothers letter 6 of October 2013

Ignorance of the law I can teach you !
First you send my sisters chats with others just to prove that you violated the right to privacy, but also enough to demonstrate that you my sister implemented a monitoring behavior . I do not think it is allowed in Norway . I and other people's debt problem is very simple , the parties can best explain all the problems . You misinterpret these procedures in the event of malicious qualitatively is untenable. You say you how much money a month to my sister ? 4800 ? Funny you say that you do not recognize . You ask friends in China my sister how much real income in the country ? She gave generous income in China follow you go to Norway. You actually have the nerve to say how much money each month to give her the gift if it were still on it, it seems that you did not give you a good look at my previous reply , always feel that we need your help , then you 're really funny , China there is a proverb called frogs understand what it means? And so you can understand when you will no longer have the problem on my sister listing doubts . She in China is fully capable of solving their debt problems , but to follow you to Norway you can better take care of your life together. She gave up their due income. Richard , you know, any man with a conscience to understand how to treat a woman like her , but you have the nerve to say here how much money you gave my sister . You kept saying that I had a gambling debt , Dear Sir Richard . Do not you feel like you own lip naive do ? You said that the so-called accident how can I avoid responsibility , do you have any basis in fact ? They alone wretched steal your chat history? Do you think these words in the legal sense? And you spread the word on the internet can be just enough to prove your stupidity and ignorance. In fact, you are not stingy stingy with us does not matter. To know there is a saying in China : people do day in perspective ! My sister to be checked from in Norway have diabetes , you're thinking method to find so many reasons to let her return home. This can not help but suspect your motives . You actually have the nerve to say that she has her own online money to pay their own expenses , to be honest , this may be Westerners customary manner . But in China this is not really a man thing to do. Finally, I also really do not want to say anything, because you are such a person is really nothing to say. I will pass all of our previous communication Norwegian police , as well as your online reputation spread by the fact that these malicious slander . We are not afraid to face the truth , because the truth can not be false . Include your online offer what I call the creditor , she will also explain the situation made ​​culvert . Finally do not want to specify a communication can solve all the problem areas so that to prove it


 

给静萍兄弟的答复

很明显你并没有理解我之前的信的内容。谷歌翻译对于此类沟通的作用不是很好。你需要一个懂英文的人来帮你翻译我的信。

我会试着找一个人来帮我翻译。

所谓的监控

你姐姐用我的电脑来和你交流。我并没有监视你姐姐，有时候，她甚至用谷歌把她和你之间的对话翻译成英文给我看。有一次，是在2012年二月，她在哭，我问她发生什么事情了。她给我看了一个文件，描述了你如何从你的雇主那里借了一辆车然后无证驾驶。你出了车祸还像一个懦夫一样逃离现场，把数个伤者留在那里。当我看到这份说明的时候，伤者还在医院治疗，费用早就超过250,000人民币了。

在2013年四月，你的姐姐要我看一些我电脑上的文件。有一些文件是和你有关的。其中有一个文件是你们的完整的聊天记录！当静萍叫我查看我自己电脑上的文件时，就等于她给了我这个权限。至于聊天记录，我并不喜欢我所看到的内容，尤其是跟你有关的！

关于经济

我的税后收入大概在20,000挪威克朗/月或者240,000挪威克朗/年（挪威克朗和人民币几乎是等价的）。我每个月给我的妻子4,000克朗，也就是一年48,000克朗。出售小猫所得共40,000克朗给了她，我又给了她20,000克朗来还债，她在幼儿园打工也挣了差不多20,000克朗。

48,000+40,000+20,000+20,000=128,000克朗。这已经比我一半的年收入还要多了。这些钱都用于汇到中国偿还你的赌债和其他一些乱七八糟的事情。此外我支付在挪威生活的所有开支，这些所有费用足以支付超过6个人在桂林的年平均收入。为什么我要因为你车祸后弃伤者于不顾，肇事逃逸而降低我的生活水准？为什么我要降低我的生活水平，只是因为你从一个女人那儿借了钱，而且你知道我和我妻子肯定会帮你还债？为什么我和我妻子必须为你的 愚蠢的不负责任的财务状况付钱？我可没和你结婚！我很想问你，你认为你有权利支配多少我的钱？

当我知道你以为我要你姐姐回国是因为她得了糖尿病，我非常震惊和困惑。挪威有句老话“以己度人”，意思是一个人常常用自己的想法去解释他人的行为。因为你自己是这样的人，在你造成车祸后，你可以遗弃严重受伤的人，不顾而去，所以你理所当然觉得我要静萍回国是因为她得了糖尿病？

以下是我要求你姐姐回国的几点理由：

超过半数以上的我的年收入都汇到了中国。

你姐姐想回中国。她在这里感到无聊，又想家，而且她说我们的婚姻是失败的。她非常关心她的儿子，她的儿子没有工作，没有继续读书，又拒绝参军。他通宵玩电脑游戏，一直到早上五、六点。她很关心她儿子在和谁来往，她不能如她所愿把儿子带到挪威来。她希望回国去帮助她儿子。你姐姐并不喜欢和我有性生活。性对她来说，只是作为妻子必须尽的义务，可以让她继续留在挪威并且帮你还赌债、车祸赔偿，以及其他高风险的不负责任的财务操作。如果一个人和我发生性关系只是为了尽义务或者为了像一个妓女一样挣钱，我没办法让自己正常地兴奋，过上正常性生活。我曾经尝试寻求专业帮助，专业帮助可能会是一些比较简单的建议比如建议你姐姐在性生活的时候不要接听电话。而你则坚持要你的姐姐维持这一段她并不喜欢的婚姻关系，包括不喜欢和我发生性关系，因为这样你可以利用她获得金钱。你开始像一个皮条客或人口贩子，而你利用我妻子的行为，已经违法了挪威的几条法律。

谎言，背着我和别的男人见面，你姐姐计划一旦在挪威呆满3年，获得长居以及工作，她就和我离婚，

你姐姐拒绝在财产分割协议上签字，因为你建议她不要。因此我们的婚后收入属于夫妻共同财产。也就是说如果我在婚后用我的钱买了一辆新车或一幢新房子，离婚的时候你姐姐有权分走一半。你姐姐计划着要和我离婚！

你姐姐拒绝和家庭问题咨询办公室合作。

我最终决定离婚，直接的导火线是因为她和你策划着通过诬告我家暴她来达到继续留在挪威，帮你还债的目的！当我得悉你们的计划后，第二天我立即到挪威移民局和警察局告知了他们，你们的计划，然后我找我的律师开始离婚程序。

在一次家庭问题咨询办公室的会议上，我向你姐姐传达了一下的警告：

我不会容忍任何人对警方或其它公共机关所说的，关于我的任何谎话，虚假信息和诬告。我会把大量资源用在处理那些诬告我的人上。为了获得在挪威继续居住的权利而对公共机关谎称虐待的事会让我不得不立即申请离婚。

撤销这个基于第53条法的诬告案例，是将来我们能继续维持关系的先决条件。

我决不食言。

挪威和中国的法律系统和警察职责有着巨大的差异。

在挪威，几乎没有腐败。警察不会像打手那样去打人，骚扰他人，不会有像城管执法那样的情况。在挪威也没有任何黑监狱。没有秘密审判。警察和法院不受任何政党控制。

和中国相比，挪威警察都受过高等教育，至少是三年的基础教育（指本科），很多人受教育程度更高（硕士及以上）。

挪威的警察对于处理类似你姐姐的案件很有经验，他们很容易看穿你姐姐的谎言。

问候

理查德诺顿

Reply to brother

You obviously have not understood my previous letter. The Google translator is not adequate for this type of communication. You need to have my letters explained to you by someone who understands English.

I will try to get help from a human translator.

Alleged monitoring.

Your sister used my computer to communicate with you. I did not spy on your sister. Sometimes she translated communication in the Google translator for me to read. One such example was in February 2012. She was crying and I asked her what was wrong. She showed me a document describing how you borrowed a car from your employer and drove it without a driver license. You had an accident and fled the scene of the accident like a coward leaving several injured people. The injured were still in the hospital and at that time the hospital bill was already 250,000.

In April 2013 your sister asked me to look at some files on my computer. Some of the files were correspondence with you. One of the files was the entire chat log! When your sister asks me to examine some files on my computer she is giving me permission. As for the chat log I do not like what I see, particularly the correspondence with you!

Economy

My income after-tax is about 20,000 a month or 240.000 Norwegian kroner per year. (Norwegian kroner is roughly the same as Chinese RMB). I gave my wife 4,000 a month = 48,000 per year. Gave her 40,000 for selling cats. I gave my wife 20,000 to pay debts. She earned about 20,000 working in a kindergarten. 48,000+40,000+20,000+20,000=128,000. More than half my yearly income sent to China to pay for your gambling debts and other bull shit! In addition I pay absolutely all costs of living here in Norway! This is more than the average yearly income in Guilin for more than 6 persons! Why should the quality of my life be degraded because you criminally left injured people at the scene of your car accident? Why should the quality of my life be degraded because you borrowed money from a woman you knew my wife and I would have to pay for? Why do we have to pay for your foolish irresponsible financial affairs? I did not marry you! I would like to ask you, exactly how much of our money did you think you were entitled to?

I was puzzled and astounded that you can think that I would send your sister back to China because she had diabetes. There is a saying in Norwegian “På seg selv kjenner man andre” which means basically that a person explains or understands other people’s behaviour by an understanding of their own behaviour. Is it because you are such a person that can leave seriously injured people at the scene of a car accident that you imagine I would send my wife back to China because she has diabetes?

Here are some of the reasons I wanted your sister to return to China:

More than half my yearly income was being sent to China

Your sister wanted to return to China. She was bored and homesick and she said our marriage was a failure. She was very concerned about her son. Her son had no job, did not go to school and refused to join the military. He was playing computer games all night until 5 or 6 in the morning. She was concerned about who he was associating with. She was not able to get him to come to Norway as she had hoped. She wanted to return to China and help her son. Your sister did not enjoy having sex with me. Sex for her is a necessary inconvenience and duty she must perform as a wife so she can remain in Norway and pay for your gambling debts, car accidents and other irresponsible high risk financial acrobatics. I do not function well sexually with someone who’s just doing sex as a duty or to get money like a prostitute. I tried to get professional help for us. Professional help could be simple suggestions for example advising your sister to not answer the mobile telephone when we are having sex. You have exploited your sister by insisting she remain in a relationship she doesn’t like that includes sex with a person she does not want to have sex with so that you can earn money. You are beginning to resemble a pimp or a human trafficker. Your exploitation of my wife may well be in violation of several Norwegian laws.

Lies, meetings with a man which your sister tried to keep secret from me.

Your sister was planning to divorce me as soon as she had been in Norway 3 years and obtained a permanent residence permit and a job.

Your sister refused to sign the agreement regarding the division of property because you advised her not to. Property acquired after marriage is therefore community property. This means if I use my income to for example buy a new car or a house your sister will be entitled to half when she divorced me. Your sister was planning to divorce me!

Your sister is refused to cooperate with the family counselling office.

My final decision to divorce your sister was a direct result of her contriving together with you to make false accusations about abuse so she could remain in Norway to pay your debts! When I learned about your plans I went immediately the next morning to the Norwegian directorate off of immigration and the police and informed them about your plans. Afterwards I went to my lawyer to start the divorce process.

I delivered the following warning to your sister in a meeting with the family counselling office:

I will not tolerate any lies, false information or false allegations about me to the police or any other public authority. I am willing to devote significant resources to dealing with people who make false allegations. False claims about abuse to public authorities with the intention of obtaining unlawful stay in Norway will lead to immediate petition for divorce.

Elimination of a false section 53 case as a parachute is a prerequisite for further constructive work with our relationship.

I keep my promises!

There is a tremendous difference between Norway and China regarding how the legal system and the police function.

In Norway there is almost no corruption. The police do not behave like thugs beating up people in harassing them in Norway like the Chengguan Urban Management Law Enforcement (城管执法). There are no secret detention centers (黑监獄) in Norway. There are no secret trials. The police and the courts are not controlled by any political party.

Compared to China the police are highly educated in Norway with a minimum three-year basic education. Many have additional education.

The police in Norway are very experienced in dealing with cases like your sisters and there is a good chance they will see through your sister’s lies.

Regards

Richard Norton