My answer :
(NN, hello
       Thank you regard me as a UU, but in fact, and I have separated and divorcing my wife has also been progress, in fact I am no longer your UU it. You're quite right, you only 20 years old and should not be doped into adult disputes in the past, but you have the right to know the truth , although the truth is cruel. )


     Thank you in China during , you and I and my family are a happy , you and I have shared your cat videos and other videos , but also pick strawberries together , read our magical Guilin karst stalactites also saw a 15 meters long painting three-dimensional carvings . Thank you and we have fun together . You and your wife leave China and go to Norway until now these days , I do not know what happened between you in the end , but you should believe that you had before because of love combined .

My answer :
( I do not deny that I spent in Guilin great time , and I really miss the good old days in Guilin , and I am wondering why when my wife to Norway , she told me the attitude has changed. Want to know Guilin , I do believe that we are in love . , but came to Norway , she began to slowly change it. )

Secondly , and perhaps cultural reasons for the differences , so that you and my family had a lot of misunderstandings and unpleasant , but please do not put these you are with my family's household chores up for the Chinese people 's moral standards to judge , this is stupid. Ethics, conduct legitimate means to measure whether or not the concept of standards. Standards of right and wrong come from different specific production capacity, production relations and naturally formed under lifestyle . A society generally socially accepted code of ethics. Involves only individuals, between individuals , families and other personal relationships of ethics, called private morality ; involving public part of the moral community called morality . Groups tend to become moral consciousness of others accused in the modern , morality has returned to the individual's self- view , criticism of others is not called morality, reflect on their own behavior is. Accused only bring quarrels, blindly blame others , in my opinion not a normal man should do .


My answer :
( Communication between me and my wife poor indeed cultural differences of factors in there , but more of the same thing in different standards , for example, I absolutely can not accept still hit and run driving without a license , my wife's brother is one such example , but my wife , when she knew her brother made ​​such a thing , she thought only to get money to help him pay back the money , that he was arrested or where the defendant , so that the next time she What my brother got into trouble, or will help him wipe my wife , her brother will never be a responsible man. your letter inside, many of which are on the network or copied text books , you have not really to understand the meaning behind these words do ? " do not believe the book as no book ", which is your Chinese words , your own morality , worldview , and is kind of how ? )
     
   

Again, you borrow the force of public opinion , in order to prove what ? You want to show that you are the victim it ? You get the same Chinese word : blame . My family does not want to give me and my family know that you place between the various , but let me first contact with these things is through you , I have good reason to suspect your motives , you want to destroy our unity within the family . Chinese people pay attention to ' the 1st couple hundred days grace ', ' Ten years of cultivation the same boat , a bed sleep a hundred years of cultivation ,' rather demolished ten Temple, do not split a marriage ' . My family are the traditional Chinese people , Chinese people are either doing nothing more than a "feeling" words. You, as a Norwegian , you accept the western culture , while the understanding of the family may have lost. You will never understand Chinese people understand kinship , thicker than water . You know what is Kongrongrangli it ? Do you know what lay on the ice carp it ? Do you know what brothers what ? Please wait for you to understand these allusions come when properly view this site written content. You in your QQ space is written to allow more Chinese people to criticize us a man? Is to let more people know the truth ignorant masses into thy affliction drama it ? It is irresponsible to the public . Network is a virtual community , but the virtual community and social reality are inseparable, directly related to the reality of social harmony and stability. Internet rumors to lie packed into the "facts " will guess flipping into a " presence " in the online trouble and disturbing . If allowed to run amok, will seriously disrupt social order , affect social stability and endanger social integrity . Honesty is the traditional Chinese virtues . Is the most respect for the quality of the Chinese nation . I do not want to see that there are so many people deceived by rumors , which Weihuzuochang , do evil . You cold is human, is cool people .

My answer :
( In fact, this whole thing is not my first borrowed the force of public opinion . " Blame " this sentence should be used in my wife who falsely accused me of domestic violence because she went to her , I will use the network media to promote something about the truth of this matter , because she told me false accusation has caused substantial damage to many of my friends are not dealing with me , just thought I was a man playing a woman , and in fact, I have even a finger untouched my wife you told me that ' the 1st couple hundred days grace ', ' ten years of cultivation the same boat , a bed sleep a hundred years of cultivation ,' rather demolished ten Temple, do not split a marriage ', do not read the couple Well , you want to break up the marriage , is my wife , you know, from her into the women's shelters and domestic violence began to tell me that she does not intend to marriage .. In the meantime, I just want her back to Guilin , to handle her financial problems , she borrowed so much money banks , as well as her brother to ask someone to borrow money on the outside to have her still , she stuck in the stock market is also a lot of money , not only did not flesh also thought to continue to drive investment money , so I do not want her to toss out the money , I hope she deal with these financial issues and then come back to Norway , but she walked straight into a women's shelter . I, as a Westerners , perhaps you are not the most understanding of Eastern culture , but at least I know to do one pair of themselves, but also the person responsible for others , my wife's brother, he know ? my wife how much to pay for him , you know ? my wife dragged by her brother in this life how much you know ? now her brother continues to drag my wife , my wife do anything for him around , including her false accusation made ​​my decision , but also his ideas behind her brother is not only that he is an irresponsible person , he also instigated others to become an irresponsible person , which is not acceptable to me and each person who regarded themselves manage , there would be so many things of you think I'm in the destruction of unity within your family , if you are really that unity within the family , I am an outsider and how to destroy it ? are you a high school student , and later it will be going to college ? bar first learn to think independently . )




Finally , please stop harm my family's reputation and privacy and other legal rights, including your wife , your wife's sister, and your wife's brother. I do not like strangers to my family finds fault . More reluctant they brought them a meal as a joke , or discuss with others in conversation. If the role on the exchange, you are willing to suffer this kind of treatment it ? You know : Confucius once said, ' Do unto others not do to others .' I do not know if you make one of these sites is what is meant is to get more people know the truth of the support it ? No matter what your Norwegian law , the People's Republic of China Tort Law and Civil Law for your such behavior are clearly defined.

My answer :
( I am willing to put my things are uploaded to the network removed , as long as the withdrawal of my wife also falsely accused me and help me restore the reputation , she is willing to do ? You can convince her? 'm Afraid you as a junior , did not speak at home right now , my wife brother firmly in control , in order to satisfy his own desires , forcing his sister stay in Norway to make money, if you are my wife , will you ? your hard-earned money all repatriated , debt to his brother , and you do not know when he owed ​​a debt ass to you . my wife miss her son , but they can not return to see his son , she is actually very hard here, too , would have been if she Norway , even if we divorce, I do not have any comment , because, as Westerners , we are independent of the individual, after the divorce, she was not in Norway, is not related to me , but I can not accept her to achieve through false accusations I stay in Norway purposes. ' do unto others not do to others ' this sentence, you should say to her fishes, if not her first framed me , how could I have uploaded those things yet. )






Note:

People's Republic of Tort Law Article civil rights and interests range ( on privacy )
1 , without citizen permission to disclose their name, likeness , address , ID number and phone number.
2 , private demolition others letters, diaries others peep , spying the contents of private files of others , and to them publicly .
3 , investigation, spy on others, social relations and illegally made ​​public.
4 , the collection to the public of citizens do not want to purely personal situation.
5 , without their permission , unauthorized publishing of people 's secrets.
6 , individual citizens leaked material or made ​​public or expand the scope of the disclosure .

Chinese Civil Law Article 140 provides that:
In writing, orally in the form of other people 's privacy , or fabricating facts openly vilify others personality , as well as the use of insults , libel or other means to damage the reputation of others , some impact , it should be recognized as an honorary citizen the right to act against .

PRC Tort Liability Act , Chapter Article III:
Infringement of the right to request the infringer to bear tort liability.

People's Republic of Tort Liability Chapter Article VI:
Due to fault of the perpetrator against the civil rights of others , shall bear tort liability .
According to the law presumed perpetrator is at fault , the perpetrator can not prove that he is not at fault , should bear tort liability.

People's Republic of Tort Law Chapter II Article XV :
Tort liability approach are:
( A ) stop the infringement
( Two ) removal of obstacles
( Three ) eliminate the hazard
( Four ) return of property
( Five ) restitution
( Six ) damages
( Seven ) apology
( Eight ) to eliminate the impact of rehabilitation .
These bear tort liability approach can be applied individually , or you can apply in combination


My answer :

( On 10 October 2013 , I never thought to damage the reputation of my wife's sister and privacy , etc. This is because before , she had never done anything to me . Moreover , with regard to the previous my wife and her brother all the things that my wife's sister gave me some useful information , and also said that she does not agree with my wife's brother and she hated his brother's lies, deception behavior and strongly opposed to the amount of money used in this brother who, she knew that the money is never to return , my wife's brother is a bottomless pit , so I always think my wife's sister morality is correct , ethical standards much higher than my wife , I once admired her , but one day, she is in my QQ space made ​​the following passage:

 October 7, 2013
Ning told my sister : Ning and you go to Bangkok dating. In 2011 , Ning stay at your house , while my sister was not at home , you have to seduce rather , in December 2012 , you have framed my sister and said: My sister needs rather help to find a man in Denmark , really funny, this time Ning Danish police have already been repatriated , this is your and Ning collusion framed my sister , and now you two went to Bangkok dating proved Richard , you are having an affair . Contrary to marriage. You framed my sister , you are wicked .

 

I can understand that because I'm divorcing her sister and I and publicly exposing her attempts to gain a Norwegian residence permit through lies the younger sister is very angry at me.

But I can not forgive her malicious slander regarding Ning, fabricating facts to say that I am rather in 2011 and has been struggling . In fact, Ning repeatedly advised me to put online content removed , trivialize , do not let conflicts . I am very disappointed my wife's sister , her in order to affection, can attack an innocent person . Your " flesh and blood " is that you can go against all conscience , ethics , the dirty water poured on an innocent person do ? What's more, you Chinese have "severing ", " Prince of offense and the common people with the crime ," whether this person is your family or a friend , if he made ​​a mistake, they should bow to admit and correct mistakes, as family and friends, should help and encouraged him to correct the error , and not condoned , harboring criminals ! )




I love my family , but I understand right and wrong , but I see the content you express are too let me down, I prefer to believe them to live together with my family for two decades . This time the letter represents only my personal point of view , are all my heart and soul, please forgive me for not communicate with you in English , after all, five thousand years of Chinese culture is profound, some words I can not use English to express. I wish you good health.


     
                                                  xx of NN: NN
                                                 October 16, 2013