The deplorable circumstances regarding the sale of the kitten Eros.

Email correspondence between Martha, Sherri Amirault, Rebecca Heslop, and Richard Norton
 

Comment by Richard Norton

 

This correspondence documents Sherri Amirault's belligerent behavior, her failure to honor a written guarantee and her lack of concern for the welfare of the kitten involved.

It also documents her sister in law, Sherri Amirault's total lack of concern for the welfare of the kitten and her lack of integrity.

Rebecca Heslop writes in an email to Martha, the woman that bought the kitten Eros:

"Sherri denies giving you any signed document stating "any reason" so i don't know about that".

Even after the signed document was published on my web page, proving Sherri Amirault was lying, Rebecca Heslop is still willing to provide unconditional support to Sherri Amirault! Her willingness join Sherri Amirault in the intimidation and public ridicule of Martha is very disturbing. Sherri Amirault publicly claimed that Martha sold the kitten after two days for more than she paid for it. The truth is that Martha after a month gave the kitten to family more suitable for dealing with the type of behavioral problems the kitten Eros was suffering from. Rebecca Heslop's "expert opinion" that the kitten needed more time to settle in proved to be very wrong indeed! To this very day Eros still suffers from same behavioral problem. Neither Rebecca Heslop or Sherri Amirault should be involved with the breeding or selling of cats.

 

I wonder what the local cat club, the Canadian Cat Association, The International Cat Association (TICA) and The International Bengal Cat Society (TIBCS) and The Bengal Cat Connection think about all this?

Below is the email correspondence in connection with the sale of the kitten Eros.

 
Date: Thu, 5 Jun 2008 08:15:27 -0700
From: post@kijiji.ca
To: Sherri Amirault
Subject: Reply to your "Pure Bred Bengal Kitten" Ad on Kijiji
From: Martha
HI,
Is your kitten still available? I am from London. Thanks,
Martha
 
 
From: Sherri Amirault
To: Martha
Sent: Thursday, June 5, 2008 2:21:55 PM
Subject: RE: Reply to your "Pure Bred Bengal Kitten" Ad on Kijiji

HI, yes they are.
 
 
Date: Thu, 5 Jun 2008 11:35:37 -0700
From: Martha
Subject: Re: Reply to your "Pure Bred Bengal Kitten" Ad on Kijiji
To: Sherri Amirault
Would we be able to come see the kitten - on the weekend?  Or when would be a good time?
thanks,
Martha
 
 
From: Sherri Amirault
To: Martha
Sent: Thursday, June 5, 2008 4:10:07 PM
Subject: RE: Reply to your "Pure Bred Bengal Kitten" Ad on Kijiji

Hi I am off for the next couple of days so any time is fine, just let me know when is good for you.
 
  
Date: Thu, 5 Jun 2008 13:34:05 -0700
From: Martha
Subject: Re: Reply to your "Pure Bred Bengal Kitten" Ad on Kijiji
To: Sherri Amirault
Okay, thanks - I'll talk to my husband and let you know when we can make it there.  I'll have to get directions from you. 
Also - if we decide that we would like to get this kitten, when would we be able to bring him home?   Would you want us to come back to pick him up?
thanks again,
Martha
 
 
From: Sherri Amirault
To: Martha
Sent: Thursday, June 5, 2008 5:36:06 PM
Subject: RE: Reply to your "Pure Bred Bengal Kitten" Ad on Kijiji

Hi, my place is easy to find. You take the Brant Street exit and head south towards the lake, Then turn right on Elgin Street, which is one block north of lakeshore. The address is (deleted). There is parking in the back. This weekend is the craft fair and it will be busy down here, might be hard to find parking on Saturday and Sunday. You might want to bring a cat carrier with you if you have one incase you want the kitten. He will need it to travel. My phone # is (deleted) if you have any questions give me a call, my name is Sherri Amirault.
 
 
Date: Thu, 5 Jun 2008 15:17:58 -0700
From: Martha
Subject: Re: Reply to your "Pure Bred Bengal Kitten" Ad on Kijiji
To: Sherri Amirault
Hi Sherri Amirault
I think we will try and come there tomorrow afternoon (luckily, we both have the luxury of taking time off work when we want).  I'll try and call you later - as I do have some questions.  And I will let you know for sure when we are able to come there.
thanks,
Martha
 
Comment by R Norton: On Friday afternoon June 6, 2008, Martha pays $500.00 for the Pure Bred Bengal Kitten Eros and takes the kitten home.
She is NOT informed that ALL the documents accompanying this kitten are NOT original documents but are made from digital photographs.
She is NOT informed that the kitten has previously been treated for Feline Chlamydophila!
She receives a signed guarantee where the following is written:
"If for any reason you wish to bring him back full refund will be given."
Signed Sherri Amirault.
 
From: Sherri Amirault
To: Martha
Sent: Saturday, June 7, 2008 3:19:26 AM
Subject: RE: Reply to your "Pure Bred Bengal Kitten" Ad on Kijiji

Hi, we miss Eros already. Hope is ok and setteling in alright. Please let me know all is well, thanks, Sherri Amirault.
 
 
Date: Sat, 7 Jun 2008 08:06:50 -0700
From: Martha
Subject: Re: Reply to your "Pure Bred Bengal Kitten" Ad on Kijiji
To: Sherri Amirault
Hi Sherri Amirault
I don't think he is liking it here too much.  I managed to get him out of the carrier last night and hold him for a while - but he darted a couple of times.  I'm concerned though that he hasn't eaten, or drank anything yet.  Nor has he used the litter box.  He's shying away from everyone as well who try to pet him.  And he won't let me take him out of the carrier this morning.  I'll check in with you later today, to see if we've had any progress.
Thanks for checking on us.
Martha
  
Comment by R Norton: The above mail from Martha early Saturday morning clearly indicates a problem after less than a day. 
 
From: Sherri Amirault
To: Martha
Sent: Saturday, June 7, 2008 11:55:44 AM
Subject: RE: Reply to your "Pure Bred Bengal Kitten" Ad on Kijiji

Hi, I think that as long as he knows were the food and litter is he'll come out and eat when he gets hungry enough. He did the samething when he came here. Poor little guys just scaird and will get use to new smells soon. The canned food is his favorite have you tried giving him that, it might work. Let me know how it is going, I hope in a few days he'll be ok. Sherri Amirault
 
 
Date: Sat, 7 Jun 2008 14:32:30 -0700
From: Martha
Subject: Re: Reply to your "Pure Bred Bengal Kitten" Ad on Kijiji
To: Sherri Amirault
Hi Sherri Amirault
I bought some canned food, but he hasn't eaten any yet - nor any water.  We bought him a scratching pad/climbing house at a yard sale this morning and he's hiding in there now.  He won't let me take him out.  However, we've had him picked up and cuddled a few times this afternoon.  He was laying on the couch with Les for a while, and then he later fell asleep laying on me.  He jumps though at every noise.  My kids and friends are in and out a lot, and then makes him skittish.   I caught him poking his head out of his hiding spot, which I placed right next to the food.  And as soon as he sees me, he gets back in.  He seems to be comfortable with us when we're holding him though, but then he darts for a hiding spot.  It appears we are making some progress, as sometimes when I pick him up (he was hiding behind the couch before I showed him what we bought) he was letting me do so without any resistance.  And he lets us pet him when he's cuddled with us and lets us play with his tail.  He seems fine for a few minutes and then he's gone looking for a hiding spot.  I'll keep you posted as to how we're doing.
Martha
 
 
From: Sherri Amirault
To: Martha
Sent: Saturday, June 7, 2008 9:45:32 PM
Subject: RE: Reply to your "Pure Bred Bengal Kitten" Ad on Kijiji

Hi, of course he is scaird he just needs time, it took at least a week for the kittens to settle in here. No cats like to move. If you leave his food out by his cage he will he it. Honestley he does have an awesome personality, he just needs to ajust. I am sure things will get better with time. Sherri Amirault.
 
 
Date: Sun, 8 Jun 2008 06:36:11 -0700
From: Martha
Subject: Re: Reply to your "Pure Bred Bengal Kitten" Ad on Kijiji
To: Sherri Amirault
Hi again,
I've left you two messages to let you know that we will be bringing Eros backHe is really not happy, and still has not eaten.  All he has done this morning is tremble, and that was after  we spent 1/2 hour looking for him.  We are now leaving him in the carrier, so that we know where he is.  Please call me, as this is causing some anxiety which is not good for Eros either.
We are heading out shortly as we have some other things to do, but will bring him with us and head your way as soon as we get your call.
thanks,
Martha
 
 
From: Sherri Amirault
To: Martha
Sent: Sunday, June 8, 2008 9:59:18 AM
Subject: RE: Reply to your "Pure Bred Bengal Kitten" Ad on Kijiji

I get it, you are not a patient women. Calling me at 9 am on a Sunday and wanting to give back Eros cause he doesn't act the way you like after 2 day. I am realizing you are acting like a spoiled princess and I bet you are use to having your way. Having had Eros live here for the last 2 monthes I know he is a talkitive, sweet, playful Bengal kitten. That being said, I did not forsee any problems, so I paid off my bills with the 500 dollars and it will take me 2 pay cheques to get it back to you. It is up to you now, wait 3 weeks and then bring him back or do it today with no refund.  I think the last thing he needs is a 2 hour car ride, anyway let me know what you decide.
 
Comment by R Norton: Sherri Amirault’s rude and belligerent behavior is totally uncalled for. Sherri Amirault writes:
 “did not forsee any problems, so I paid off my bills with the 500 dollars…”
Sherri Amirault received strong indications that there was a problem less than half a day after she sold Eros. Three weeks for a frightened kitten to be in a difficult situation is mean!  So much for the guarantee:
"If for any reason you wish to bring him back full refund will be given."
 What does the cat club, TICA and TIBCS think about all this?
 
Date: Sun, 8 Jun 2008 13:28:43 -0700
From: Martha
Subject: Re: Reply to your "Pure Bred Bengal Kitten" Ad on Kijiji
To: Sherri Amirault
Sherri Amirault,
The kitten is way too skittish and only responds to other animals.  The only sound he has made is when he heard my nighbour's cat meowing on the deck.  He is very afraid of humans, and is startled at any sound - even repetitive ones that he has heard a number of times already.
We will wait the 3 weeks for you to pay us back.  You did put in writing that we would get a full refund is we decided to bring him back - for whatever reason.  What do you suggest should he not start eating or drinking? 
 
 
10.06.2008 03:33 Subject Your bengal kittens in Canada
From Martha
To: Richard Norton
 Hi Richard
My name is Martha, from London, Ontario, Canada.  I actually have your Eros.  Very disappointed!!
Your friend here in Burlington, Sherri Amirault, has destroyed your loveable cats. They are extrememly unsociable, and skittish.
We got Eros a few days ago, with a written guarantee that if we wanted to return him for any reason we could for a full refund.
I'll send you a copy of it if you wish.  We are not happy with Eros, as he does not have typical Bengal qualities and wishes to spend his whole day in hiding Sherri Amirault has lied over and over to us about how social he is, and how affectionate and loving he is.
She spent the money we paid for Eros on her bills, and has reneged on her guarantee, and has cut off communication with us.
You can let her know that we have started legal litigation against her as well as calling the Humane Society - in hopes that the other 6 cats living in her disgusting apartment may be saved..
If you are such a celebrated breeder and can be found all over the internet, I would have expected your acquaintances and cats would be of greater quality.
With all respect and total disappointment,
Martha
 
 
10.06.2008 15:30 Subject Re: Your bengal kittens in Canada
From Martha
To: Richard Norton
Thank you very much for responding and providing some help/ideas for me.  I'm at work right now, and the paperwork is at home - so I'll send you copies of that later today.
I paid $500 for ErosHe's a beautiful little boy - but at the moment he only lets us hold him for about 30 seconds, and then he bolts to his hiding spot behind the couch.  And he doesn't want to be picked up - he digs his nails into the blanket or he cowers and just trembles.  And he only eats and uses the litter box during the night.
He has only meowed 3 times so far. Twice was when he heard our neighbours cat on the deck meowing, and last night when we got a thunder storm.  Other than that, he hasn't made a sound.
Thanks again for the suggestions - it's much appreciated.
Martha
 
 
10.06.2008 23:49 Subject Re: Your bengal kittens in Canada
From Martha
To: Richard Norton
Hi Richard
Here are the documents that I received with Eros.
I bought a harness and leash on the way home and he is now on it.  He went spastic and thrashed himself around on the floor and hissed until he got out - I had it too loose.  It took 3 tries to get it right.  He's been on it for about 1/2 hour - and hasn't tried bolting for about 10 minutes now.
What do you suggest we do with him while we are at work?  Put him in the cage, so that he can't hide?  And how oftern should we offer food and water to him?
Thanks so much for the help with him. 
We have a friend with a wonderful Bengal, and that is why we wanted one. 
Martha
Comment by R Norton: 4 digital photos, pedigree, health certificate, ID card, vaccination were attached.
 
 
11.06.2008 02:02 Subject Fw: Reply to your "Pure Bred Bengal Kitten" Ad on Kijiji
From Martha
To: Richard Norton
Hi Richard
fyi - Sherri Amirault resumed her communication with me after I contacted you.  I have not, and will not be responding to her.  She doesn't mention Eric below - whom she does not recommend as a pet, or the disabled one (that is what she told us).
ps.  Eros actually fell asleep on my chest this evening - totally relaxed and with no tension in his body.  But did try to dart as soon as he woke up.  We actually heard him make some sounds this evening that wasn't in response to our neighbour's cat.  He is settling a bit, and we will continue with the effort.  I really, really appreciate your help.  We want this beautiful little boy to be an interactive part of our family.
Martha
Comment by R Norton: correspondence with Sherri Amirault attached.
----- Forwarded Message ----
From: Sherri Amirault
To: Martha

Sent: Tuesday, June 10, 2008 7:00:36 AM
Subject: RE: Reply to your "Pure Bred Bengal Kitten" Ad on Kijiji

Martha,
I got a copy of your email to Richard. I have never lied to you, I told you when you were here I lived alone and was trying to socialize the kittens by bringing friends and kids by.
 (Comment by Martha: Sherri Amirault told us that the kids chased the cats and made some of them skittish and that it was her fault for not trying to socialize the kittens)
 If you had watched any of my you tube videos you could see how nice and sweet and fun all the cats are.
 (Comment by Martha: She did not offer that information to us - only your you tube videos)
I honestley did not forsee a problem with Eros or you, so I went ahead and used the money. For you to make a judgement about me or Eros is insane, you don't know me or the cat. I am sure Eros is getting better each day and you will see that I am not wrong and have not lied. Anyone who has ever had a cat knows that they don't like to move. All my cats are loved and well cared for, spoiled infact. You are talking out your ass and don't have a clue. Could you be anymore dramatic? I saved Eros and his brothers from a life in a cage. All Richards cats are caged most of the time, all 19 of them. My clean appartment was a definate improvement for them. I found them all nice homes but one, yours. I can tell that I was right about you, you are going to stomp your feet and have a tantrum aren't you princess. Well you go ahead, do what you have to, I have done nothing wrong.
 
Comment by R Norton: Such disrespectful and belligerent behavior was totally uncalled for! Sherri Amirault should have honored the written guarantee!
Sherri Amirault’s preposterous claim that she:
“saved Eros and his brothers from a life in a cage. All Richards cats are caged most of the time…”
is de-facto admitting to selling kittens that has been subjected to substandard conditions for the major portion of their lives. Precisely the conditions that one would expect to result in unsocial and skittish behavior - without informing the buyer!
 
 
From: Martha
To: Richard
Sent: 11.06.2008 03:20
Subject: Re: Fw: Reply to your "Pure Bred Bengal Kitten" Ad on Kijiji
Thanks Richard
I do have the Royal Canine food - I bought that originally - he did not eat the canned food.  And he did eat from my hand tonight - two small handfulls.   He is very much more relaxed since we have been forcing him to be with us constantly.  He slept on my husband's chest as well.  And we took a couple of really cute pictures of him.
I can't thank you enough!!  Hopefully soon he'll be a happy little fellow.
Martha
From: Martha
To: Richard
Sent: 11.06.2008 15:36
Subject: Re: Fw: Reply to your "Pure Bred Bengal Kitten" Ad on Kijiji
 
Hi Richard
Here are the pictures that we took last night after Eros had calmed down.  He was being a real snuggler.  And he also ate from my son's hand (I have 15 year old twins). 
 
He was vocal a couple of times through the night, and this morning he was back to trying to get away from us.  He managed to thrash his way out of the harness and scooted under a china cabinet.  When I got down to look in at him, he hissed.  And he was also very vocal this morning which is a first as we've barely heard a peep from him.  I offered him food, but he didn't take any of that.  We will attempt today to try and get something that provokes his attention to get him to play.  He does not play or walk.  He only crouches, or gets into position to try and made his getaway.
 
If you have any suggestions for toys or something that might get his attention, I'd appreciate it.
Martha
 
From: Martha
To: Richard
Sent: 11.06.2008 17:34
Subject: Re: Fw: Reply to your "Pure Bred Bengal Kitten" Ad on Kijiji
Thank you.
I'll have to wait until I get home to view them.  I'm at work, and YouTube access is blocked.  I guess they prefer that we work while at work - and not by "playing".
 
What are your thoughts about Eros not walking around.  Even on the harness, when we move around we have to carry him.  When we try to get him to move, all 4 sets of claws are extended and he tries to resist the pull on the leash.  I haven't yet just seen him standing.  When he darts for a hiding spot, he's down in that stealth position.  And when sitting still, he's crouched down.
Appreciate it!
Martha
 
From: Martha
To: Richard
Sent: 11.06.2008 19:12
Subject: Re: Fw: Reply to your "Pure Bred Bengal Kitten" Ad on Kijiji
Great - thanks Richard!
Enjoy your week in Denmark.
Martha
 
From: Martha
To: Richard
Sent: 15.07.2008 15:14
Subject: Re: Fw: Reply to your "Pure Bred Bengal Kitten" Ad on Kijiji
Hi Richard
Thank you for checking on us.  We didn't make out so well.  He did not like being on the harness and tried to bolt.  He constantly 'hissed'at us.  When we tried to pick him up, we ended up all scratched, and the kids weren't going anywhere near him.  I was putting him in the travel crate at night just so we knew where he was, and he thrashed until he jarred the top loose so he could escape and find a hiding spot. 
A friend of my son's took him - as she is home all day to try and work with him.  He is still hiding all day, and comes out at night to eat - but she thinks she can get him to turn around.
He is a beautiful looking cat, but he has been so de-socialized.  We are too new at being cat owners  - and I think he is better off with someone who understands cats better than us.  She also has another cat (an adult), which she thinks will help with Eros. 
We have since got another one though.  We bought one from a breeder who has been breeding Bengals for 18 years.  She has a stud from Jean Mill in California who is our kitten's father.   She is only 3 1/2 months old - very cute, very social and very loving.  She is everything (and more) that we were wanting in a pet. 
This has definitely been a learning experience - and I greatly appreciate your help, support, and advice with Eros.   I think he'll be much happier though where he is now - and she was happy to have him.  Her son (my son's friend) keeps us posted regularly.
Take Care
Martha
 

Comment by R Norton: Rebecca Heslop and her sister in law Sherri Amirault's following up of this kitten is deplorable! They reputably ridicule Martha and claim that she "got rid of Eros after two days". Sometimes they claim that she sold Eros for more than she paid. Here are examples in comments made on my videos:

zoeydeleted aka Rebecca Heslop, a member of: The Canadian Cat Association, The International Cat Association, The International Bengal Cat Society, The Bengal Cat Connection and member of a local cat club:

"too bad. M got rid of Eros after 72hrs--poor baby--skittish? WTF"

M was trying to return a kitten because he was "skittish" after 72 hours! WTF

...she was trying to hand him off!! NO one else finds that f*cked up?

mulelover aka Sherri Amirault makes the following comment on my first video "  The Canadian kitten Fraud":
"Martha sold the cat after 48 hours for more then she paid."
Sherri Amirault often functions as a spokesperson for Rebecca Heslop's cattery. For example when Rebecca Heslop is asked where she is registrered as a breeder Sherri Amirault answers:
"lol sorry dear I don't think Zoey will be busting out any personal info on this public forum. She is not stupid."
I think we need to know WTF the Kool Kats Club, TICA and TIBCS think about this? Do they find anything "Fucked up" here? Is this the proper way to follow up a kitten. Is it ok to ridicule Martha and say that she sold the cat after 48 hours for more then she paid, when this is not correct?   
 
 
From: Martha
To: Richard
Sent: 19.07.2008 04:08
Subject: Re: Your bengal kittens in Canada
Hi Richard
I appreciate the respect that you've shown me in these emails.  I truly contacted you because of my disgust for Sherri Amirault and what she was doing to your name with the state of the kittens- but did not expect compensation .  And I do not expect anything forthcoming from her - but I do thank you for the gesture.
I placed Eros in a home that I think is better than ours as we our brand new to owning a cat.  I know the poor little fellow was stressed and scared - and we just didn't have the experience with cats to deal with it.  His wild features, and the fact that he was always in the crouched position (looking like he was ready to attack) was very intimidating to my kids.   He certainly wasn't vicious - but gave the impression he was.  I really am a pet lover, and have a soft heart - and I wanted to see him in an environemt that was best for him.  I cried when he left as I felt like a failure because I didn't know what to do for him
I am sorry that Sherri Amirault has turned into a less than civil person as far as you are concerned.  I suspect that she must have a crush on you. 
And if you don't like women that have to shave, than I don't blame you for not returning the feelings.  (No slur intended, but she is not the epitomy of womanhood).
 
My opinion in all of this is:
1.  Be sure of who your are buying a pet from (sketchy looking apartment and person - avoid)
2.  Eros is much better off with a woman/family who has the time to spend with him and has another cat to assist with that.  And who doesn't mind having a skittesh cat.
3.  You found out the real person that Sherri Amirault is - and you will not be bringing here there to bring your wonderful Bengals to Canada to sell anymore.
 
We fell in love with the Bengal because they have the personality of a dog.  We've been dog owners our own life.  I lost the last one in February - 4th in my lifetime (I'm 41).  And I feel good that Eros is with Dawn right now because she has experience with cats and will do all that she can to bring him around. I check in on him regularly.  I do sincerely care about his welfare.
 
I don't understand your business, and why you ship your kittens to Canada.  Do you have connections here other then Sherri Amirault?  I certainly hope so!!
 
In closing, our bengal girl that we have is fabulous.  She is funny, playful, affectionate, and just wants to be with us.  She follows us around, wants to do what you are doing, loves water, and justs wants to be where we are.  I am sure your Bengals would be be same had they not be subjected to Sherri Amirault.
 
Sincerely,
Martha
 
 
Please let me know if you hear from Sherri Amirault
 
 
From: Martha
To: Richard
Sent: 03.08.2008 01:47
Subject: Re: [Fwd: Re: Hi]
I hope so.!!
I'm still trying to copy that guarantee - it's not coming out too clear.  I'll try to get a copy to you tonight.
So what is the weather like there?  You're pretty much north like we are, although we're in southern Canada.
It's been hot and humid here.  We were away camping (doing the tent thing) along Lake Huron for a few days - so we're glad to be back home to the air conditioning (and my bed).
Did you ever get the names of the other purchasers?  When we were there, only Erik was still with her.
Talk soon
Martha
 

 

From: Martha
To: Richard
Sent: 03.08.2008 02:56
Subject: Re: Fw: [Fwd: Re: Hi]
I agree - she is her worst enemy.  Her last response was to call me a crazy bitch again.
Will do on the blackmail crap -  Mums the word.
Did you get that copy of the 'Guarantee"?  And can you read it?
 I'm heading down to watch a movie with my hubby now.  What time is it there?  It must be the middle of the night.
I'm away most of tomorrow (family reunion) but will talk to you sometime tomorrow.
Martha
 
 
From: Sherri Amirault
To: Martha
Sent: Saturday, August 2, 2008 7:43:04 PM
Subject: RE: [Fwd: Re: Hi]

Maybe we should meet in person and talk. I am sure you would have lots to say to me then!!!
 
 
From: Sherri Amirault
To: Martha
Sent: Saturday, August 2, 2008 7:58:07 PM
Subject: RE: [Fwd: Re: Hi]

I know where you live, no need to give directions!
 
 
From: Martha
To: Sherri Amirault
Sent: 03.08.2008 02:17
Subject: Re: [Fwd: Re: Hi]
And how would you know that Canadian woman?  I have not given you my address.  Is that another threat of yours?
The only place I will meet you is at a police station - where you can explain the written gurantee, as well as the fraudulent pedigree papers you provided.  Funny that you failed to let us know that the originals would come from Richard after you let him know that Eros was sold - because you didn't let him know that the kitten was sold.
Let me know what station you want to meet at.
 
 
From: Sherri Amirault amero <samero@hotmail.com>
To: Martha Vaughan <Marthavaughan@rogers.com>
Sent: Saturday, August 2, 2008 8:23:15 PM
Subject: RE: [Fwd: Re: Hi]

lol fraudulent pedigree paper. You bought a pet quality bengal cat and at an excellent price. I did not sell you breeding rights, so how do you figure that I am being fraudulent? You don't even have the cat anymore. Move on, go bug your husband, I am sure he's use to it.
 
 
Comment by R Norton: What does the Kool Kats Club, TICA and TIBCS think about Sherri Amirault’s threatening behavior? Rebecca Heslop and Sherri Amirault worked hand in hand with the Ridanos kittens and Rebecca Heslop’s cattery. Sherri Amirault often functions as a spokesperson for Rebecca Heslop and her cattery. How could Rebecca Heslop accept or approve of Sherri Amirault's bullying and threatening behavior to a buyer?
 
 
From: Martha
To: Sherri Amirault
Sent: 03.08.2008 02:33
Subject: Re: [Fwd: Re: Hi]
Sherri Amirault - enough of the lies, and outrageousness.  What ever reason you have a chip on your shoulder - or why you treat people in such a manner is not my fault or my doing. I don't deserve this - I have never been uncivil or disrespectful to you.
 
What arrangements are you going to make for the repayment?
 
 
 
From: Rebecca Heslop Zoeygirly
To: Martha
Sent: Sunday, August 3, 2008 8:13:50 PM
Subject: Bengals
Hi Martha,

I'm a friend of Sherri Amirault's and Richard and felt that i had to at least touch base with you and make some kind of statement regarding the sweet boy (Eros) that you purchased from Sherri Amirault/Richard

When Richard shipped the four E-boys to Canada my daughter/my hubby and myself agreed to house two of those babes ourselves--we had previously purchased two bengals from Richard --a boy and a girl that we are extremely happy with--they are verrrry affectionate and amazing Bengals --plus we agreed to help out with the housing/care of two of the boys that were shipped--both were also extremely affectionate and well socialized with teenagers, small children, family and friends--The other babies were also well cared for at Sherri Amirault's--i was there on numerous occasions and they were not any more skittish than any other baby coming into a new household--Richard and Sherri have both forwarded me your emails regarding the concern towards Eros but you barely gave him any time to adjust to you/your boyfriend/house/travel etc. This is typical Bengal behaviour--believe me i know since i own and am very experienced with this breed of cat.

I have read all emails regarding this situation and will definitely provide accurate information including pictures and videos of Sherri's clean and loving environment towards these cats--as we did ourselves--i would NEVER let a cat, never mind a Bengal be in a situation that was less than healthy and comfortable....ever. She spoiled these cats and gave them everything--food, treats, affection, medical care--everything that they would need. The fact that the baby was not immediately affectionate and was "skittish" is a given with the Bengal breed as i well know--he was "a perfect example of what the breed is!!"  Sherri would never and has never abuse  kittens/cats that they have in care and i will testify to that if it comes down to that --including my daughter, my hubby, my mom, my entire family...you did not give that poor kid a chance and too bad for you because you and your boyfriend would've had an awesome addition to your family. He was one of my daughter's favorite's and Sherri took excellent care of him as we all did with all the E-boys.

Seriously, in my opinion it is too bad that you didn't give Eros more of a chance, you would have loved him :) Gorgeous Bengal especially for the price you paid--that is unheard of for a purebred--my last babe cost $3000 +shipping

Sincerely,

Rebecca Heslop
 
 
Comment by R Norton: In my opinion this letter is primarily a reaction to Martha's threat about legal litigation against Rebecca Heslop's sister in law Sherri and calling the Humane Society. Rebecca Heslop warns that she, her daughter, "my hubby, my mom, my entire family" are willing to "testify" in her sister in laws favor if necessary.
Rebecca Heslop mentions twice that she is familiar with all the emails. She makes no mention of Sherri Amirault’s refusal to honor the written guarantee. Rebecca Heslop makes no mention of Sherri Amirault’s shameful and belligerent remarks i.e.:
 
“You are talking out your ass and don't have a clue.”
“I can tell that I was right about you, you are going to stomp your feet and have a tantrum aren't you princess.”
“I am realizing you are acting like a spoiled princess and I bet you are use to having your way.”
 
Sherri Amirault told me in April that the she was having trouble with the E-litter and antisocial and skittish behavior. She was having difficulty selling them and was considering castrating them.
Rebecca Heslop is trying to put the blame on Martha; “you barely gave him any time…”
If it WAS Martha’s fault then all the more reason to immediately remove the kitten from that situation and cheerfully give her the money back! This is NOT the way to sell kittens. This is showing total disregard for the welfare of the kitten.
 
Rebecca Heslop writes:
“i would NEVER let a cat, never mind a Bengal be in a situation that was less than healthy and comfortable....ever.”
Eros was indeed in an uncomfortable situation! Whether he is a ”cat” or a ”Bengal” is totally irrelevant
Rebecca Heslop unconditional support of Sherri Amirault’s behavior lacks all integrity.
Rebecca Heslop gives the misleading  impression to Martha that she is some sort of expert on the Bengal breed and a seasoned breeder! I was asked to be her mentor in April. On a comment to my video published on the 4th of August Rebecca Heslop writes the following: “You agreed to be my mentor and to help me as a new breeder”.  Clearly, Rebecca Heslop's experience is not as a breeder. 
 
From: Martha
To: Rebecca Heslop Zoeygirly
Sent: 04.08.2008 05:35
Subject: Re: Bengals
 
Hi Rebeca
Thank you for taking the time to write to me, and trying to explain some indifferences that have been happening.   I understand now how two of the kittens were sold without issues - because they were in your care. 
 
I do understand the loving qualities you described about bengals.  We have since purchased a bengal from a reputable breeder.  She has been breeding bengals for 18 years - and the father of our kitten is from Millwood Bengals in California.  Jean Mill - the owner - is the originator of the breed.  Our new kitten is much more than you described in your email.  She has not at all been skittinsh.  She is "cautious" when someone enters the room - but never has she hid, or run away from anyone.  She loves people, approaches them, she follows us around, sleeps with us, and is a constant enjoyment.  She has not at all been skittish as you described in your email when you first bring them home.  The first night we had her home, she was purring, and very affectionate to myself and my family.
 
Did you buy a breeder or show cat?  All the research that we done on purchasing a bengal showed that a pet was anywhere from $500 -$1000.  And a breeder or show cat was upwards of $1500 - $2500.
 
My real issue in all of this is the written guarantee that she wrote us, as well as the fraudulant pedigree papers.  She did not tell us that they were scanned copies and that the originals would come from Richard.  I realize now that that is because she wasn't going to tell him that she sold any of the cats. And of course, the offensive language she has used with me.  It's obvious that her only purpose was to scam the purchaser as well as Richard.
 
As for Eros - we placed him in a home with a woman who has many years experince with cats.  Now, two months later, he hasn't changed.  He hides all day, and only responds to animals.  Our experience with him wasn't at all what we expected from a Bengal.  He hid all day, and only came out at night to eat.  We tried forcing him to be with us while we were at home - but he hissed at us constantly, and every time we picked him up, it was a "scratch-fest".  My kids actually wanted nothing to do with him.  We never heard him purr or meow.  The only sound we heard from him was when our neighbour's cat was on the deck - other than hissing at us.  Instead of being a part of our family, we dreaded having to deal with him.  I suspect though that if Eros had been placed with you, he wouldn't have been in such a state that he was totally unsocialized.
 
My lesson in all of this - is not to purchase anything form a sketchy person in a sketchy apartment.  I'm too trusting - and unfortunately for me - I was scammed by a women with "ugly syndrome".  But more than that - Richard lost 4 of his cats to her- as she hasn't forward any of the proceeds to him. 
 
You sound like a woman with morals - so  I don't understand how you can be a friend of someone who uses the human race to benefit herself and threaten others.  And I certainly don't understand how she sleeps at night - but as the old saying goes - what goes around, comes around.
 
As for me,  I will sleep well tonight and every night with my wonderful bengal kitten snuggled under my arm.
 
Sincerely,
 
Martha
 
Comment by R Norton: Martha writes:
“As for Eros - we placed him in a home with a woman who has many years experince with cats.  Now, two months later, he hasn't changed.  He hides all day, and only responds to animals.”
The fact that the kitten has NOT changed shows that Rebecca Heslop was WRONG! In spite of this, Rebecca Heslop continues to ridicule Martha for not giving Eros enough time. Here are some examples of Rebecca Heslop’s comments on my first video “The Canadian kitten Fraud” ridiculing Martha for giving up too soon:
“M was trying to return a kitten because he was "skittish" after 72 hours! WTF”
“Martha had an issue after less than 48hrs--Wtf?!--no chance for the poor boy to settle in,”
“M got rid of Eros after 72hrs--poor baby--skittish? WTF”
“If this is all a bashing over the Martha "situation" does no one else that knows about Bengals see that the short time that the poor babe was in her "care" she was trying to hand him off!! NO one else finds that f*cked up? Unbelievable--my daughter and my family and mysel were around that poor baby that is the subject of all this bullsh*t--he was discarded to to lack of "typical bengal behaviour" Richard even you know that isn't right.”
“Ok, have you "seen" a signed agreement- that is not standard--you cannot return a kitten/cat just because it doesn't like you --only for medical reasons--and even then it has to be within 72hrs max and if they have major genetic problems--you can't return a kitten that "doesn't come out to play immediately and doesn't purr right away" OMG!! That never happens!!!!”

Rebecca Heslop writes under the name (of her daughter).

The signed agreement may indeed be non standard. It says, and I quote: "If for any reason you wish to bring him back full refund will be given." The fact that Rebecca Heslop finds this agreement “not standard” is no excuse for her sister in law Sherri Amirault not honoring the agreement!
 
I wonder WTF the Kool Kats Club, TICA and TIBCS thinks about this!  Do they find something that is “f*cked up”?  Is this sort of behavior in accordance with code of ethics that Rebecca Heslop claims to take very seriously?
 
 
 
From: Rebecca Heslop
To: Martha
Sent: Monday, August 4, 2008 4:57:48 PM
Subject: Re: Bengals
Hi Martha,

I'm glad that you have found a wonderful bengal kitten with the qualities that you were looking for--believe me it's not that easy. I have many breeder friends from here in Canada and the US--I actually used to email Jean Mill years ago for advice on bengals and questions! Too bad that she retired, she's an amazing lady :)

Not all bengals are friendly right off--you are lucky that your kitten has a wonderful personality right away--some are skittish right from birth and take a lot of time and attention to socialize. Some are at the other end of the spectrum and are extremely affectionate and personable. It just depends. For instance, a cat that i purchased directly from Richard is extremely attentive and loving and he himself said that that was "very unusual"--you could ask him, her name is Desdemona and she's wonderful but she was from a different litter than the boys and had a completely different personality--my point is, same breeder but completely different attitudes, it happens.

I'm also a registered breeder and currently have six beautiful babes --five are wonderfully social --run to the door, purr constantly, talk, snuggle, etc. but my one girl is veeerrrry anti-social and we are working with her constantly to bring her around--she is only 15 weeks and has been home with us for about three. I purchased her as a show for $3000 from an excellent breeder who is a great lover of the breed and has been breeding for over ten years. I assure you that not all bengals will go into a new home and be as social as yours! I've visited numerous catteries over the last two years and some bengals (kittens and adults) will come out right away, some will run and hide, some will hiss/growl.

As for the "fraudulent papers" --that is not the case at all. Richard also mentioned this to me in an email but it must be something that is different in Norway plus he does not sell for the categories we have here--pet, pet/show, breeder, breeder/show, etc. Here in Canada you can register with TICA if you have the scanned documents from the breeder and the breeder has registered the litter with at least one cat association. I know this for a fact because i'm a member of TICA and TIBCS and if you read the code of ethics you will see that this is the case. Sherri Amirault had Richard's authorization to sell the kittens (obviously because he shipped them to her). One lady has already registered a kitten with TICA with no problems. The pedigree papers are in fact legit and when selling as a "pet" the originals are not necessary. Only if you are selling for breeder or show purposes.

As for the written guarantee, she should not have given you a guarantee stating that you could return the kitten for "any reason"--i have told her this--that is NOT standard --there is only ever a health guarantee and usually you have approx. 72 hours to take the kitten to a vet for check up if you desire. Breeders may give you a refund or replacement kitten--depending on the breeder--if there is some genetic health problem, etc. But certainly not due to skittish behavior. Sherri Amirault denies giving you any signed document stating "any reason" so i don't know about that.

The situation between Richard and Sherri Amirault is much more complicated than you know and i won't comment on that since it's between the two of them but i will say that her "intention" wasn't to "rip him off" there are underlying issues here, but again, it's between them. I will say that i've known Sherri Amirault for twenty plus years and this is all very unusual.

It's too bad about Eros, i thought he was a sweet boy as did my daughter. It's unfortunate that he was having so much trouble adjusting especially since it sounds like you have a nice family and a loving home. Not unusual at all though. Some females for instance will kill the whole litter after they've had babies or will refuse to nurse a litter even though they have been wonderful cats prior. Boys often will try to kill siblings and have to be separated. Some love children and some hate them. I've heard many, many stories believe me! We are glad that he is with someone experienced with cats--hopefully he'll come around.

Anyway, i'm happy for you that the babe you have now is fitting in. That's great, they can make wonderful pets in a loving home. It's definitely better to purchase purebred cats through reputable, registered breeders. We have a code of ethics to follow and take them very seriously.

Sincerely,
Rebecca Heslop
 
 
Comment by R Norton: Rebecca Heslop writes:
“Sherri Amirault denies giving you any signed document stating "any reason" so i don't know about that.”

 
Very shortly after this, a copy of the written guarantee was published on my web page. Why does Rebecca Heslop continue to unconditionally support Sherri Amirault after she gained knowledge that the written guarantee was published on my page?  
Is this kool with the Kool Kats Club, TICA and TIBCS? Does the Kool Kats Club, TICA and TIBCS think that signed documents, guarantees, contracts etc should be honored?
 
From: Richard Norton <rhnorton@start.no>
To: Martha
Sent: Friday, August 8, 2008 9:23:36 PM
Subject: Re: Fw: Stuff!

When one cat gets chlamydia all the cats must be treated. Eros was also
treated and you should have been informed. Probably it was mentioned on
the vet certificate from Norway but I'll bet you were not told about that
nor were given vet the certificate from Norway.

You defiantly should have been informed about this because it is very
contagious and can infect other animals!

RHN
 
 
 
From: Martha
To: Richard Norton <rhnorton@start.no>
Sent: Friday, August 8, 2008 9:23:36 PM
Subject: Re: Fw: Stuff!
 
Of course I wasn't informed.  Are you kidding??
Meeting Sherri Amirault has been the worst experience of my life.
 
 
What does Rebecca Heslop, the Kool Kats Club, TICA and TIBCS think about NOT informing the buyer that a kitten has previously been treated for Chlamydia! Is this sort of behavior in accordance with code of ethics that Rebecca Heslop claims to take "very seriously"? All the kittens in the E-litter, Rebecca Heslops cat Desdemona and Fandango have been treated for Chlamydia. Were the buyers of the two kittens that stayed at Rebecca Heslop's house informed about Chlamydia?