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请看来自于我妻子的弟弟的愤怒的信04.10.13

理查。我没想到你是个很可笑的人,也很可悲。你的行为恰恰暴露了你为人自私阴暗的一面。无论你在网上任何地方如何去散布谣言,都无法掩盖你丑陋的思想。有句中国话我可以免费送给你,谣言止于智者。任何事物的进展都要符合逻辑性,你说我是个懦夫躲避别人的债务,在这里你能大声的告诉所有人事情的真伪吗?你知道的是什么?你能把事实真相当事人带出来做证吗?你可以联系到你所谓的我的债务人。你能请她为你说明真相吗?如果不能我可以帮助你。如果说到懦夫我认为你连懦夫都成为不了。你只知道在暗地里去监视一个无助的女人,更厚颜无耻的到处诉说得不到性生活,请问你能正视自己的身体是否正常这个问题吗?你除了无度的折磨一个弱小的女人,以此达到你欲望的追求,你还有点男人应有的风度吗?要知道和谐的性爱不是动物般的机械性,人与人之间的融合理解才是最根本的基础。你认为你为刘静萍付出了很多。请把数目罗列出来好好的比较一下。你能提供得出来的数据我就能在最短时间里给你结算。别把自己标榜得很伟大。在中国有句俗话,人正不怕影子歪。不要认为你生活在西方你就优人一等,西方有很多优良传统在你身上体现不出来。你在网上散布的信息也恰恰说明了你自身的问题所在。任何时候我都有可以追诉你的权利。事实上我也正准备把你这些材料整理并交付挪威警方。事实胜于雄辩。我相信在国外更注重事实与真理! 

 

 

 

Read the angry email my wife's brother sent me 04.10.13. (Translated with Google translator.)

 

Richard. I did not think you are a very funny man, but also very sad. Your behavior has just exposed the dark side of your selfish man. No matter how you go anywhere on the Internet to spread rumors, they can not hide your ugly thoughts. Chinese saying, then I can give you free, rumors stop wise. Progress must comply with anything logical, you said I was a coward to escape the debt of others, where you can loudly tell everyone the authenticity of things do? You know what? Can you bring out the truth the parties do card? You can contact me to your so-called debtor. Can you ask her to tell the truth you do? If not I can help you. If it comes to a coward I think you can not even become a coward. You just know that in secretly to spy on a helpless woman, more brazen lack of sex life everywhere tell, what you can face your body is working this problem? In addition to excessive torture you with a weak woman, in order to achieve your desire to pursue, you should have a little man's demeanor do? To know a harmonious sex not an animal like the mechanical, the integration between people is the most fundamental basis for understanding. Do you think you pay a lot for the my sister. Please set out the number of good comparison. Can you get out of the data provided in the shortest time I can give you a settlement. Do not flaunt their very great. There is a saying in China, people are afraid of the shadow crooked. Do not think that you live in the West you Semblance First, the West has a lot of tradition in your body not manifest. Your information is also disseminated on the Internet just made ​​your own problem. Any time I can have recourse your right. In fact I am now ready to put your finishing these materials and deliver the Norwegian police. Speak louder than words. I believe that more attention abroad facts

 

 

My reply.

You write some stuff about sex. The divorce has absolutely nothing to do with sex. Things like honesty, loyalty, trust, respect, empathy and love are much more important than sex. Your sister lied to me several times August and September 2012. My final decision to divorce your sister was a direct result of her contriving together with you to make false accusations about abuse so she could remain in Norway to pay your debts! When I learned about your plans I went immediately the next morning to the Norwegian directorate off of immigration and the police and informed them about your plans. Afterwards I went to my lawyer to start the divorce process.

I tried to explain this to you before in several emails but you obviously have not understood. I do not expect you or your sister to understand now either. I’m writing this primarily for those that do understand. Your sister wrote the following:

 

说实话,我在这里要努力学习语言,找到好工作,可以 帮助弟弟。不跟别人说。

陆春 13:04:53

我知道你好累的。

弟弟妹妹都要靠你

To be honest, I'm here to trying to learn the language, find a good job to help his brother. Do not tell anyone.
Lu Chun 13:04:53
I know you're tired of.
Brother and sister have to rely on you

 

 

Your sister wanted to return to China. She was bored and homesick and she said our marriage was a failure. She was very concerned about her son. Her son had no job, did not go to school and refused to join the military. He was playing computer games all night until 5 or 6 in the morning. She was concerned about who he was associating with. She was not able to get him to come to Norway as she had hoped. She wanted to return to China and help her son. Your sister did not enjoy having sex with me. Sex for her is a necessary inconvenience and duty she must perform as a wife so she can remain in Norway and pay for your gambling debts, car accidents and other irresponsible high risk financial acrobatics. I do not function well sexually with someone who’s just doing sex as a duty or to get money like a prostitute. I tried to get professional help for us. Professional help could be simple suggestions for example advising your sister to not answer the mobile telephone when we are having sex. You have exploited your sister by insisting she remain in a relationship she doesn’t like that includes sex with a person she does not want to have sex with so that you can earn money. You are beginning to resemble a pimp or a human trafficker. Your exploitation of my wife may well be in violation of several Norwegian laws.

Your sister used my computer to communicate with you. I did not spy on your sister. Sometimes she translated communication in the Google translator for me to read. One such example was in February 2012. She was crying and I asked her what was wrong. She showed me a document describing how you borrowed a car from your employer and drove it without a driver license. You had an accident and fled the scene of the accident like a coward leaving several injured people. The injured were still in the hospital and at that time the hospital bill was already 250,000.

In April 2013 your sister asked me to look at some files on my computer. One of the files was the entire chat log!

 

In your letter you challenge me by asking if I had talked to the woman you borrowed money from and if I had any proof. A supposedly Russian saying:

“Be careful what you ask for, you just might get it!”

I have indeed talked to the woman you cheated out of 30,000! Why? Because when you hid from the woman like a coward she contacted my wife. My wife agreed to pay the woman with our money!

To refresh your memory is an excerpt of the chat.

 

 

 

 

日期:29.01.2013

祖儿 04:38:54

大姐,在线吗?我有点事想跟你说。

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琴之韵 05:30:36

你好!现在了

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琴之韵 05:31:14

什么事?

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祖儿 05:49:45

你能找到你弟吗?

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琴之韵 05:51:26

我也好久没跟他联系了。

(评论:She had contact with him every day.)

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祖儿 05:52:16

你跟他联系的方法就手机吗?还有其他方式吗?

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祖儿 06:00:06

实话说吧,他借了我3万块,说是一周还的,结果现在过了半个月了,关机,失踪,要知道这是我打工一年的工资啊。

(评论:桂林的人均年收入是2万)

 

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琴之韵 06:01:53

哦,我明白了。

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祖儿 06:03:44

你湖畔山庄的房子是委托了他买卖是吧?

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琴之韵 06:05:07

你放心,这笔钱我记着,大姐担保你,他不会不给你,前些时间,听家人讲他,正在向银行贷款,只是年前担心银行放不下,要到年后。

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祖儿 06:07:54

他起码要给我一句话的,我当初是把他当朋友,有困难,二话没说去银行转钱给他,过了几天他才写了借条给我

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琴之韵 06:08:19

是的。

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祖儿 06:09:44

我现在刚办了离婚,要从前夫房子搬出来,由于种种原因没有任何补偿,大姐你是女人,应该知道我有多难

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琴之韵 06:10:09

不好意思,大姐明白你的心情。你这笔钱一定会还给你的。

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琴之韵 06:12:09

我现在语言还没过关,过了,一个月也有一万多,这笔钱一定会给你,只是时间问题。如果年前银行能放,就会在年前给你。

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祖儿 06:12:20

但他也不能把我当傻子,因为如果他这样欺骗我,我也是有社会的办法拿回的,只是有没有到这地步。你转告他给我个时限吧!

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琴之韵 06:13:46

你放心,你能帮他,我很感激,他不会对你不讲信用,确实是正在办理贷款中。

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琴之韵 06:15:45

好的,我会让家人转告。

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祖儿 06:15:55

2月份之前吧,这份朋友情谊值不值就看他自己想了

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祖儿 06:17:35

数目不多,但对我来说是安身的钱,我租着房子住的,以后一切都要靠自己

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琴之韵 06:17:35

他认你的朋友情的,他不是恶人。他一直都告诉我,你象我们家人一样,真的,你放心。

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琴之韵 06:31:31

你看到他帮我卖房的信息了?如果是,得到钱肯定就会还你了。

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祖儿 06:42:52

但愿他是讲良心的人。

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琴之韵 06:46:12

肯定是,退一万步讲,我这个做大姐的,知道这事,不能一次还给你,我也会分期付给你。你的钱一分不会少。

 

(评论:这不是你姐的钱,这是我们的钱!! 根据挪威婚姻法,这是我们的钱! 你给了你姐以下很糟糕的建议:

 

就我看他的回信,我能明白其实就算是小曾恰也难 以说服他什么或者是改变什么观点。我建议除了所 谓的分割财产坚持不能做以外,,其他的你都可以 考虑依着他。。。你完全把国内的事情放下。,。 就照他的想法过了先。。

 

如果她确实签了协议(关于婚内财产分割协议),那些就是她的钱,但是很不幸,她听从了你的建议(所以婚后所有的钱根据挪威法律都是共同拥有的,她给你的钱是我们的钱而不是她的钱),你给了她一些法律上的建议但是你对于另一个国家另一种文化根本毫无所知。

 

 

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琴之韵 06:47:23

我去睡一下,现在我们是清早。有情况给我留言。谢谢你的帮助。

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祖儿 06:49:26

难为你,也谢谢你了。我也休息下了。有什么联系

日期:14.02.2013

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琴之韵 03:21:28

蒙蒙,新年快乐!你帮助我弟的事情我放在心上的。

日期:24.02.2013

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祖儿 02:05:04

姐姐,静川答应元宵过后几天把钱还给我,你帮我叮嘱他一下,因为我现在其实挺困难,我在外面租房子住,样样要花钱,前夫把我的东西全部丢了出来,我居无定所,得把自己安顿好。

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琴之韵 20:05:00

蒙蒙,他答应元宵后给你,很难说下星期得,因为银行虽然说元宵放款,但是,他们不放还是拖到再下星期。川也没法。这样吧,我也是有一笔钱也是说元宵后才能取,估计会比他快些,如果得到了,从我这多少也会还你一些。我已经在上星期交待了川的二姐。把你帮助川的事情跟她讲了。你在这么困难时还帮助我们,我做大姐的真的很感谢你,如果川不能即时还,我会在后几个月分期还给你的。但是,我相信川,银行放款后肯定马上还给你。

日期:27.02.2013

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琴之韵 16:08:47

蒙蒙,我刚下班回来,我知道今早你还有没拿到钱,我的钱也还没拿到,请你不要担心,钱一到一定会给你的。川的钱到了,他会一次性给你。万一时间还是要放后拖,我也一定会在下星期给你几仟先。好吗?

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祖儿 17:06:32

我已跟他取得了联系,他也了解了我现在的处境,他是值得我信赖的朋友,我不会看错人的。争取吧!做人难,也累,但没办法,人还是要往前走。

日期:07.03.2013

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祖儿 02:42:58

姐姐,他又说要过一个月才行,我都不知道该说什么好了,如果你方便,就向三期还给我吧

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琴之韵 07:30:37

蒙蒙,这是我妹妹的电话xxxxxxxxxxx。你打她的电话,她先给你3000.到月中的时候我取了,取出钱再还点给你。谢谢你!

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琴之韵 07:31:45

川的钱确实要到下个月了。我也知道。不过,我先有点就给你先,免得你担心。我去上班了。有事请留言!

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祖儿 16:42:44

姐姐,钱收到了,谢谢你的体谅

 

 

 

 

评论:现在是3月7号,她最终从我们这儿拿到了3000RMB

 

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琴之韵 22:35:30

请别这样说,这是我应该做的。

日期:14.03.2013

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祖儿 06:53:42

大姐,现在到月中了,你下周能想办法再还我一些吗?我现在在安顿自己,吃喝拉撒什么都要购置。

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琴之韵 07:41:54

我也有计划下周会给你一些。不多话了,我去上班了。谢谢你!

日期:17.03.2013

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祖儿 10:11:27

大姐,我周三去南宁拜祭外婆,原来欠了亲戚一万元,我妈叫我这次去一定要还他们,否则没脸见人了。他们以为我离婚得了补偿,实际的情况我也不想说。你能周二还一万给我吗?

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琴之韵 10:41:25

上周单位同事告诉我,下周可以取到公积金,但是,我不知道星期一能否取到。要不你给银行帐号给我妹,取到了,就再还你一万,你看这样行吗?

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琴之韵 10:42:25

取到了就存入你的帐户,这样不影响你去南宁。

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祖儿 11:02:00

是的,我现在心里很彷徨,前夫母亲住院了,我刚得知消息,很担心他。

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琴之韵 11:02:00

您好,我现在有事不在,一会再和您联系。

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祖儿 11:03:18

姐,你现在过的好吗?人有时应该自私些,为自己考虑多些,是吗?

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琴之韵 11:03:18

您好,我现在有事不在,一会再和您联系。

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祖儿 11:05:21

农业银行,蒙春6228480141232637316

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琴之韵 11:05:44

好的,我记住了。

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祖儿 11:05:54

如果不方便打银行 就给现金

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琴之韵 11:06:51

方便的,我的公积金也是桂林银行,得到了,就转给你。

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琴之韵 11:07:09

是太自私。

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祖儿 11:07:19

是农业银行

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琴之韵 11:08:35

哦,我知道了

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祖儿 11:08:39

哎,你就当是一份凑合过日子的生活呗,想开点,吵架没意思

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祖儿 11:09:11

你忙吧

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琴之韵 11:09:18

好的

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祖儿 11:09:50

人生太短、也许我们都应该开心些

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琴之韵 11:10:02

嗯,

日期:24.03.2013

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祖儿 14:06:28

大姐,我从南宁回来了,这周可以吗?

日期:25.03.2013

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琴之韵 11:42:55

上周办理支取公积金的同事告诉我上周可以取到,星期一给了1 的商业银行帐号,可是我妹直到周五都没收到。这一周应该会有了,一到帐就转给你。请放心,谢谢!

日期:28.03.2013

 

 

Date: 29.01.2013

Joey 04:38:54

Sister, do online ? I have something you want to say .

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Qin Yun 05:30:36

Hello ! Now the

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Qin Yun 05:31:14

What happened ?

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Joey 05:49:45

Can you find your brother do ?

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Qin Yun 05:51:26

I have a long time did not contact him .

(Comment: She had contact with him every day.)

 

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Joey 05:52:16

Your method of contact with him on a cell phone? There are other ways you ?

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Joey 06:00:06

Tell the truth , he borrowed my 30,000 , say a week also , and the results are now over half a month , and shutdown, missing , you know this is my working year's salary ah.

(Comment: The money was to be paid back after one week. Average annual income in Guilin is around 20,000.)

 

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Qin Yun 06:01:53

Oh, I see.

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Joey 06:03:44

You lakeside villa house is entrusted he traded right ?

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Qin Yun 06:05:07

Do not worry , the money I remember , Sister guarantee you, he does not give you some time ago , listening to him talk about his family , is to bank loans, but years ago, worried that banks can not let go , to go to years later.

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Joey 06:07:54

He will at least give me a word , I had put him as a friend , there are difficulties , said nothing to the bank to transfer money to him , a few days before he wrote the IOU to me

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Qin Yun 06:08:19

Yes .

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Joey 06:09:44

I just do a divorce from her ex-husband to move out of the house , without any compensation due to various reasons , Sister you are a woman , you should know how hard I

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Qin Yun 06:10:09

I'm sorry, Sister understand your mood. Your money will be returned to you.

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Qin Yun 06:12:09

I did not pass the language , too, there are more than ten thousand a month , the money will give you, just a matter of time . If years ago, banks can put , it will in years to you.

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Joey 06:12:20

But he can not fool me , because if he so deceive me , I also have a social way back , but at this point there . You tell him to give me a time frame it !

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Qin Yun 06:13:46

Do not worry, you can help him, I am grateful that he will not do you no credit , loans really is being processed .

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Qin Yun 06:15:45

Well, I'll tell the family .

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Joey 06:15:55

February before it, this friendship is worthwhile to see a friend of his own thought

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Joey 06:17:35

Small number , but for me it is shelter money , I rent a house to live in , after everything on your own

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Qin Yun 06:17:35

He recognized your friend love , he is not wicked . He always told me , you are like our family , like , really, do not worry .

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Qin Yun 06:31:31

Did you see him selling the information to help me up ? If it is, it will certainly also get money to you.

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Joey 06:42:52

I hope he is the conscience of the people .

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Qin Yun 06:46:12

Definitely yes, calmly say , my sister did , and know that it can not be returned to you once , I will pay you by installments . Your money a minute , no less.

 

 

Comment. It is NOT your sister’s money!! It is OUR money according to Norwegian marriage law! You gave the following bad advice to your sister:

 

就我看他的回信,我能明白其实就算是小曾恰也难 以说服他什么或者是改变什么观点。我建议除了所 谓的分割财产坚持不能做以外,,其他的你都可以 考虑依着他。。。你完全把国内的事情放下。,。 就照他的想法过了先。。

 

Had she actually signed the agreement it would have been HER money and not OUR money. But unfortunately she followed your advice.

You are giving advice about legal matters in another country and another culture which know absolutely nothing about!

 

 

 

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Qin Yun 06:47:23

I went to sleep about, and now we are early in the morning . There is a case to give me a shout. Thank you for your help.

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Joey 06:49:26

Make life difficult for you, thank you. I also break down. What is the connection

Date: 14.02.2013

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Qin Yun 03:21:28

Misty , Happy New Year ! You helped my brother 's things I have cared .

Date: 24.02.2013

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Joey 02:05:04

Sister , a few days after the Lantern Festival Shizukawa promised the money back to me, you told him about me , because I'm actually quite difficult , and I lived in a house on the outside , everything costs money , all the things my husband lost out I no fixed abode , was settled himself .

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Qin Yun 20:05:00

Misty , he promised to you after the Lantern Festival , is difficult to say next week too , because although Lantern lending banks , but they still hold onto again next week . Chuan also can not . Well, I also have a sum of money is said to take after the Lantern Festival , is estimated to be faster than him , if you got it, how much would this also from me you some . In the last week I have confessed River sister . Put your things to help Chuan told her . You are so difficult Shihai help us, I really do thank you Sister , if not immediately Chuan also , I will pay you back a few months after staging . However, I believe Chuan, bank lending back to you immediately after the affirmative .

Date: 27.02.2013

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Qin Yun 16:08:47

Misty , I just came home from work , I know that this morning you still have not got the money , I have not got the money , please do not worry , the money will give one to you. Chuan money arrived, he'll give you one . In case you want to put the time or after the delay, I will also give you a few thousand in the next week before . Okay ?

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Joey 17:06:32

I have made ​​contact with him , and he understood my situation now , he is worthy of my trusty friend , I will not wrong man . Fight for it ! Life is difficult , too tired, but no way, people still want to move forward.

Date: 07.03.2013

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Joey 02:42:58

Sister , he said to the job a month , I do not know what to say , if you are convenient , they returned me to the three

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Qin Yun 07:30:37

Misty , this is my sister's phone xxxxxxxxxxx . You call her , she would let you 3000 . To mid when I took , and then also point out the money to you. Thank you !

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Qin Yun 07:31:45

Chuan money really going to the next month . I also know . However , let me give you a little bit first , lest you worry. I went to work. Please leave a message !

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Joey 16:42:44

Sister , the money received, thank you for your understanding

 

Comment: so now it is 7th of March and she finally got 3000 of OUR money!

 

 

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Qin Yun 22:35:30

Please do not say , This is what I should do.

Date: 14.03.2013

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Joey 06:53:42

Sister, now to mid , you can find a way next week and then returning me some do ? I am now settled myself, what should eat and drink Lazard purchase .

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Qin Yun 07:41:54

I also have plans next week to give you some . Few words , I went to work. Thank you !

Date: 17.03.2013

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Joey 10:11:27

Sister , I went to Nanning Wednesday worship grandmother , relatives originally owed ​​$ 10,000 went to my mom told me to be sure to do them , or ashamed to see people. They thought I got a divorce compensation , the actual situation I do not want to say . Can you give me ten thousand on Tuesday also do ?

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Qin Yun 10:41:25

Unit colleague told me last week , next week, you can get to the fund, but I do not know Monday whether to take . Why do not you give me a sister to the bank account , take it arrives, it then also you ten thousand , you see that all right ?

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Qin Yun 10:42:25

Take it to be credited to your account , so that does not affect you to go to Nanning.

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Joey 11:02:00

Yes, I was very anxious now , ex mother in the hospital , I just heard the news , very worried about him .

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Qin Yun 11:02:00

Hello , I am now something is not, one will contact you.

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Joey 11:03:18

Sister, you now had the right ? Sometimes some people should be selfish , to think for themselves more , eh ?

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Qin Yun 11:03:18

Hello , I am now something is not, one will contact you.

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Joey 11:05:21

Agricultural Bank of China , Mongolia spring 6228480141232637316

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Qin Yun 11:05:44

Yes, I remember.

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Joey 11:05:54

If you can not hit the bank gave cash

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Qin Yun 11:06:51

Convenient , my fund is Guilin bank , got it, it forwarded to you .

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Qin Yun 11:07:09

Is too selfish .

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Joey 11:07:19

Is the Agricultural Bank of China

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Qin Yun 11:08:35

Oh , I know

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Joey 11:08:39

Hey , you improvise when it is to live a life of chanting, want to open points, boring fight

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Joey 11:09:11

You're busy

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Qin Yun 11:09:18

Good

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Joey 11:09:50

Life is too short , maybe we should all be happier

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Qin Yun 11:10:02

Ah,

Date: 24.03.2013

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Joey 14:06:28

Sister , I came back from Nanning , this week you can do ?

Date: 25.03.2013

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Qin Yun 11:42:55

Last week, the provident fund withdrawal handling colleague told me last week, you can get to , on Monday gave a commercial bank account , but my sister and me did not receive until Friday . This week should have , and one to be transferred to arrive . Please be assured that , thank you !

Date: 28.03.2013

 

 

You write something in your letter that we don’t quite understand. “你认为你为刘静萍付出了很多。请把数目罗列出来好好的比较一下。你能提供得出来的数据我就能在最短时间里给你结算。” I had a Chinese friend translate your letter for me. Apparently you are again insinuating that I am stingy. My income after-tax is about 20,000 a month or 240.000 Norwegian kroner per year. (Norwegian kroner is roughly the same as Chinese RMB). I gave my wife 4,000 a month = 48,000 per year. Gave her 40,000 for selling cats. I gave my wife 20,000 to pay debts. She earned about 20,000 working in a kindergarten. 48,000+40,000+20,000+20,000=128000. More than half my yearly income sent to China to pay for your gambling debts and other bull shit! In addition I pay absolutely all costs of living here in Norway! This is more than the average yearly income in Guilin for more than 6 persons! Why should the quality of my life be degraded because you criminally left injured people at the scene of your car accident? Why should the quality of my life be degraded because you borrowed money from a woman you knew my wife and I would have to pay for? Why do we have to pay for your foolish irresponsible financial affairs?

I would like to ask you, exactly how much of our money do you feel you are entitled to.

 

I do not tolerate being falsely accused of abusing my wife so that she can remain in Norway and pay your gambling debts. I warned your sister last December about the severe consequences of falsely accusing me in an attempt to gain a residence permit. That also includes anyone who collaborates or encourages the making of false accusations - for example you. Often it is more important and more convenient to attack those who encourage illegal behavior, like making false accusations. My wife would never have made these false accusations without your encouragement.

You are certainly welcome to send a copy of this to the police. Email to police is: post.follo@politiet.no.

I will be publishing it on my website http://ridanos.com

 

Regards

Richard Norton

 

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